成功.docx
- 文档编号:8231137
- 上传时间:2023-01-30
- 格式:DOCX
- 页数:6
- 大小:22.59KB
成功.docx
《成功.docx》由会员分享,可在线阅读,更多相关《成功.docx(6页珍藏版)》请在冰豆网上搜索。
成功
成功
区分成功与幸福。
成功谈方法,问你如何幸福,也是在讲成功。
爱因斯坦说:
成功就是x+y+z,x代表勤奋(arbeit),y代表休息(spiel),z代表少说废话(maulhalten)work;play;shutup
季羡林说:
成功是天资+勤奋diligence+机遇talent;diligentopportunity
王国维的人间词话:
昨夜西风凋碧树。
独上高楼,望尽天涯路。
衣带渐宽终不悔,为伊消得人憔悴。
众里寻他千XX。
蓦然回首,那人却在,灯火阑珊处。
志存高远highambition;hardwork;opportunity;交集:
hardworking
解决的问题:
成功是否天注定,人是否能够决定自己的成功与否?
成功与方法的关系?
自主选择方法,是否能够帮助人们获得成功?
(06.1)
劣势和障碍是否能够转化为优势?
(06.1)
有时是否应当冒险而不是小心行事?
(06.6)
合作是否比竞争更有利成功?
(06.10)
是否只有追求完美才可以获得成功(06.11)
困难和不幸是否对人有益(07.6)
人们是否要忘却,放弃很多过去的猜测和做法?
(07.12)
无论达到目标与否,努力都是有意义的么?
(08.1)
人们是否应当只和有共同点的人在一起?
(08.1)
1.面对危机应当当机立断还是谨慎思考?
危机:
火烧眉毛。
当机立断!
例子:
1,防止想不该想的事情
Star-trek,hiswifeisinlabor,hischildisbeingborn,
2,为什么要当机立断:
哈姆雷特:
要报仇—对立面:
有利因素—but—犹豫了—没报成仇,还搭上自己的命
3,相信自己的instinct,
Inlifeweoftenhavetofacecrises,andthesecircumstanceswouldusuallydemandustomakecertaindecisions.Someprefertotakeintoconsiderationvariousfactorsandtakeprudentsteps,othersprefertolettheirinstinctstaketheleadandmakeaquickdecision.Whichoneisbetter?
Inmyopinion,whenitcomestocrises,itisoftenawiserthingtomakeaquickdecisionandtakedecisiveactions,ratherthanhesitating,becausethemorewethink,themoredistractionswemaycomeacrossandthemorelikelywewouldmissourchancestodotherightthing.
Veryoften,quickdecisionspreventusfromtheinfluenceofunnecessarydistractions.Oneofthemisfear.Fearisthecommonweaknessofhumanbeings.Infaceofcrises,fearwouldoftenstandinourwaystowardsarightsolution.OneverygoodexamplecanbefoundinthemovieStarTrek,actingcaptainGeorgeKirkandhisspaceshipwereunderattackbyanapparentlystrongerenemy,captainKirkmadeadecisivemovetoevacuateeveryoneelsebuthimself,helaterondrovetheshipandcollidedwiththeenemyship,savingthelivesofothers.Hadhethoughttwice,fearmighthavecomeintoeffect,hemaystarttofeardeath,fearoflosingtheopportunitytowitnessthegrowthofhisson…Andiffearreallypreventedhimfrommakingasacrifice,moreliveswouldbelost.
Hesitationoftenleadstothelossofopportunitiesandfurthermore,bringsabouttragicendings.WeareallveryfamiliarwithWilliamShakespeare’smasterpieceHamlet.InHamlet’sattempttoseekvengeancefor/revengehisfather,hehadhisfairshareofchances.Yetinfaceofhisunguardeduncle,hestartedtoquestionaboutthenoblenessofhisactionanddecidedtogiveup.Theprincemethistragicending,notonlydidhelosehischanceforeverbuthealsolosthislife.WhileeveryonelamentsaboutthemiserablefateofHamlet,wemightoftenthink.Hadhemadeaquickerdecision,wouldn’tjusticealreadyhavehaditsway?
Crisisusuallyembodiesasenseofurgency,asituationinwhichnodelayindecisionmakingoractioncanbeafforded.Toomuchthinking,weighingoffactorswouldofteninviteinunwantedconcerns,blindfoldingus,preventingusfromseeingtheoneandonlywayout.Hesitationmayhinderusgreatly,costingustheopportunityoftakingdecisiveactionsandthusimposeahugelossonus.Humanbeingsareblessedwithanaturalgiftcalledinstinct.Itoftensavedusfromlethal/deadly/fataldamagesandtookusontherighttrackwithoutourevennoticingit.Letustrustourselvesinourabilitytochoosetherightpathinfaceofcrises.
2.过分热情是否有碍成功?
可能;
例子:
文学看不到后果
弗兰克斯坦—探寻生命的秘密—造出了怪物—怪物带来了一系列
呼啸山庄—希斯克利夫—对立面:
爱,恨—不仅报仇,牵连无辜的人—在无辜的孩子看到了自己的小时候—郁郁而终。
Onecanneversucceedinsomethingunlessheisenthusiasticaboutit.Enthusiasmgivesusthecourageandpowertoovercomedifficultiesandsetbacks.IfThomasEdisonwasnotenthusiasticabouthiscause,hemightneverbeabletosurvivetheblowofhundredsoffailurebeforefinallyfindingtherightmaterialformakingthelightbulb.IfMartinLutherKingwerenotenthusiasticaboutthecivilrightsoftheblack,hemightneverbeabletomovegenerationsandgenerationstocomewithhis“Ihaveadream.”Yet,canwesimplyletourenthusiasmaboutsomethinggrowwithoutcontrollingit,shouldwesimplyrefusetostepbacksometimes,cooldownandgiveasecondthoughtaboutwhatwearedoing?
Theanswerisno.
Toomuchenthusiasmmightsometimesdepriveusoftheabilitytounderstandtheconsequencesofwhatwearedoing.TakeFrankensteinasanexample,Frankensteinwassoenthusiasticaboutthesecretsoflifethatitlaterondevelopedintoanobsession.Theobsessionthenledhimtocreatingamonsterandfurthermorebroughtaboutmanytragedies.HadFrankensteinbeenabletocontrolhisenthusiasm,stepbackandreflectuponthepossiblerisksofhisexperiments,hemighthavebeenabletofindthewisdomtoputahaltto/hitthebrakeonwhathewasdoing.Toomuchenthusiasmmayturnintoobsession,that’swhywehavetocontrolit.
Sometimes,whenwearesoenthusiasticaboutsomething,wemightfailtorealizethatitmayhurtothers.OneverygoodexampleisHeathcliffinthenovelWutheringHeights,itwasindeedtruethatHeathcliffsufferedfromhumiliationinhischildhood,wealsounderstandthatitwasimportantforhimtocomebackandexpresshislovetoCatherine.Yet,hewasconsumedbyhisenthusiasmforrevenge.Notonlydidheruinthelivesofpeoplewhomistreatedhimwhenhewasakid,buthealsogreatlyaffectedthenextgeneration.OnlywhenhefoundtheshadowofhispastinthelovebetweenCathyandHaretondidHeathclifffinallystoppedtorturingeveryone.Toomuchenthusiasmmayleadpeopletoharmothersandshouldthusbeguardedagainst.
Weshouldallengageinsomethingthatweareenthusiasticabout.Whenwereallycareaboutsomething,wewillneverfeardifficultiesorfailure.Wewillbeabletoinspireotherstojoinusinwhatwedo.But,wehavetobesober-mindedatthesametime.Ifweindulgeourselvesinourenthusiasmandletitbecomeanobsession,wemaylosetrackofwhatwedo.Ifwefocustoomuchonourownfeelingsofourgoal,wemighthurtothers.Letusbeenthusiasticaboutwhatwedo,yetalsomaintainourself-control.
3.竞争与协作哪个更加有利成功?
价值判断:
四个例子
1,体育,teamworkNBA湖人队OK在一起时很强—K一个人—后来新人
2,04欧洲杯:
希腊队战胜葡萄牙两次。
葡萄牙的C罗强,但还是输了
好汉架不过人多
3,玩具总动员:
W,B不要好—在受伤后互相帮助—最后找到了回家的路
4,指环王:
F,S—F曾经很坚强,但最后—S背着F走进山洞,毁了戒指—人总有脆弱的时候—应该互相帮助
Weliveinanageofindividualism,peoplecompetefiercelyfortheopportunitytocatchothers’eyeball,displaythebestofthemselvesandstandinagoodpositioninthestruggleforresources.Weweretaughttobeindependentandencouragedtostandoutinthecrowd.Yetinmyopinion,onecanneverachievetoomuchwithoutcorporation,teamingupwitheachother,makingupforeachothersshortcomingsandwatchingeachothers’back.Onlyteamplayersbecometruewinners.
Sportsmightbeoneofthebestdemonstrationsoftheimportanceofteamwork.AfterShaquilleO’NealLefttheLALakers,KobeBryantwasasinvincibleasever,yettheteamwasnolongerasstrongasbeforeuntilPaulGasoljoinedKobe.In2009,withKobe’slegendaryperformanceandPaulGasol’sstablecontributionsinthepaint,theLALakersdominatedtheleague.Similarthinghappenedinthe2004EuroCupofSoccer,inspiteofthelackofsuperstars,theGreekteam,withtheiroutstandingteamwork(mostplayersintheteamcamefrom2majorGreekfootballclubs)defeatedmanyseeminglystrongeropponentsandreachedtop.Nomatterhowstrongonepersonis,heisnomatchforateam.Italwaystakesbetterteamworktodefeatateam.
Everyonegetsweakandneedshelpsometime.Whenweareintimesofneed,onlyourcompanionscanmakeupforwhatwelackandwatchourbacks.InToyStory,bothWoodyandBuzzLightyearsufferedfrommutilation,yetthetwolearnedtohelpeachotherinspiteoftheirpreviousunpleasantencountersandtheymanagedtosaveeachother.Iftheywereontheirown,noneofthemcouldfinallymakeit.InLordoftheRing,Frodowasalreadyexhaustedbeforefinallybeingabletodestroythering,yethiscompanionSamcarriedhimduringthefinalstageofhisjourneyandthushelpedhimsavetheworld.Howeverstrongweare,weneedhelpnowandthen,that’swhyweneedtolearntorelyoneachother.
Itisoftensaidthatthetrendofourworldispeace,developmentandcorporation.Evencountrieshavetocorporatewitheachotherinvariousfronts.Comparedtocountries,humanbeingsareevenlessall-round.Weneedtosticktogethertokeepwarm,weneedtolearnfromeachotherssoastoimproveourselves,weneedtostayunitedsoastoavoidbeingout-numberedandweneedtowatcheachothers’backsinordertosurvive.Letusembracetheancientvirtueofteamworkandcherishourcompanions.Attheendoftime,ourfatesareinter-connected.Intertwined
4.成功主要靠坚持还是天分
证:
A好B不好。
虽然中科大受的孩子。
。
——天分不一定有用
爱因斯坦,
爱迪生,最成功的发明家之一
功夫熊猫。
坚持很有用。
Somesaypeoplearesuccessfulbecausetheysawitthrough,otherssaypeoplearesuccessfulbecauseitwasmeanttobe/written.Mostofusbelieveintheexistenceofgift,yetfewofuscandefineclearlywhatgiftis.FlaubertoncesaidinalettertoMaupassant,ageniusissomeonewhocouldendurealittlebitmore.Inmyopinion,giftisnotanincredibleinbornability.Itisthepowerofperseverance.Andthosewhosucceedmadeitbecausetheyfoughttilltheend.
Manygreatpeoplewereslowstarters,andtheydisplayedabelowaverageabilityintheirchildhood.Einsteinwasconsidereddumbwhenhewasakidbuthecreatedthetheoryofrelativity.Edisonwasevenclassifiedasretarded/mentallychallengedbeforehebecametheworld’smostfamousinventor.Edisononcesaidthatsuccesswas1%talentand99%endeavor.Andthatwasthehighlightofhissecretofsuccess.Ontheotherhand,manyextremelybrightkidswerereducedtothelevelofmediocrelateron.InChina,somekidsweresobri
- 配套讲稿:
如PPT文件的首页显示word图标,表示该PPT已包含配套word讲稿。双击word图标可打开word文档。
- 特殊限制:
部分文档作品中含有的国旗、国徽等图片,仅作为作品整体效果示例展示,禁止商用。设计者仅对作品中独创性部分享有著作权。
- 关 键 词:
- 成功