TED英语演讲稿 二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴附翻译.docx
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TED英语演讲稿二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴附翻译
TED英语演讲稿二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴(附翻译)
wheniwasinmy20s,isawmyveryfirstpsychotherapyclient.iwasaph.d.studentinclinicalpsychologyatberkeley.shewasa26-year-oldwo___nnamedalex.nowalexwalkedintoherfirstsessionwearingjeansandabigslouchytop,andshedroppedontothecouchinmyoffi___andkickedoffherflatsandtoldmeshewastheretotalkaboutguyproblems.nowwheniheardthis,iwassorelieved.myclass___tegotanarsonistforherfirstclient.(laughter)andigotatwentysomethingwhowantedtotalkaboutboys.thisithoughticouldhandle.
butididn'thandleit.withthefunnystoriesthatalexwouldbringtosession,itwaseasyformejusttonodmyheadwhilewekickedthecandowntheroad."thirty'sthenew20,"alexwouldsay,andasfarasicould___,shewasright.workhappenedlater,___rriagehappenedlater,kidshappenedlater,evendeathhappenedlater.twentysomethingslikealexandihadnothingbuttime.
butbeforelong,mysupervisorpushedmetopushalexaboutherlovelife.ipushedback.
isaid,"sure,she'sdatingdown,she'ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit'snotlikeshe'sgoingto___rrytheguy."
andthenmysupervisorsaid,"notyet,butshemight___rrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex's___rriageisbeforeshehasone."
that'swhatpsychologistscallan"aha!
"moment.thatwasthemomentirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butthatdidn't___kealex's20sadevelopmentaldowntime.that___dealex's20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwasarealproblem,andithadrealconsequen___s,notjustforalexandherlovelifebutforthecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere.
thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we'retalkingabout15per___ntofthepopulation,or100per___ntifyouconsiderthatnoone'sgettingthrough___hoodwithoutgoingthroughtheir20sfirst.
raiseyourhandifyou'reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!
y'all'sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttosee—okay.awesome,twentysomethingsreally___tter.
soispecializeintwentysomethingsbecauseibelievethateverysingleoneofthose50milliontwentysomethingsdeservestoknowwhatpsychologists,sociologists,neurologistsandfertilityspecialistsalreadyknow:
thatclaimingyour20sisoneofthe___st,yetmosttransfor___tive,thingsyoucandoforwork,forlove,foryourhappiness,___ybeevenfortheworld.
thisisnotmyopinion.thesearethefacts.weknowthat80per___ntoflife'smostdefiningmomentstakepla___byage35.thatmeansthateightoutof10ofthedecisionsandexperien___sand"aha!
"momentsthat___keyourlifewhatitiswillhavehappenedbyyourmid-30s.peoplewhoareover40,don'tpanic.thiscrowdisgoingtobefine,ithink.weknowthatthefirst10yearsofacareerhasanexponentialimpactonhowmuchmoneyyou'regoingtoearn.weknowthatmorethanhalfofamericansare___rriedorarelivingwithordatingtheirfuturepartnerby30.weknowthatthebraincapsoffitssecondandlastgrowthspurtinyour20sasitrewiresitselffor___hood,whichmeansthatwhateveritisyouwanttochangeaboutyourself,nowisthetimetochangeit.weknowthatpersonalitychangesmoreduringyour20sthanatanyothertimeinlife,andweknowthatfe___lefertilitypeaksatage28,andthingsgettrickyafterage35.soyour20sarethetimetoeducateyourselfaboutyourbodyandyouroptions.
sowhenwethinkaboutchilddevelopment,weallknowthatthefirstfiveyearsareacriticalperiodforlanguageandattachmentinthebrain.it'satimewhenyourordinary,day-to-daylifehasaninordinateimpactonwhoyouwillbee.butwhatwehearlessaboutisthatthere'ssuchathingas___development,andour20sarethatcriticalperiodof___development.
butthisisn'twhattwentysomethingsarehearing.newspaperstalkaboutthechangingtimetableof___hood.researcherscallthe20sanextendedadoles___n___.journalistscoinsillynicknamesfortwentysomethingslike"twixters"and"kidults."it'strue.asaculture,wehavetrivializedwhatisactuallythedefiningdecadeof___hood.
leonardbernsteinsaidthattoachievegreatthings,youneedaplanandnotquiteenoughtime.isn'tthattrue?
sowhatdoyouthinkhappenswhenyoupatatwentysomethingontheheadandyousay,"youhave10extrayearstostartyourlife"?
nothinghappens.youhaverobbedthatpersonofhisurgencyandambition,andabsolutelynothinghappens.
andtheneveryday,s___rt,interestingtwentysomethingslikeyouorlike
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