英语辩论shouldwomenstayhomeorgotowork.docx
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英语辩论shouldwomenstayhomeorgotowork
1morepatient,goodatteachingandtakingcareoftheir
2althoughnowdaystherearemorewomenworksoutside,menarethebetterbread-winners,theycanhelptheirhusband
(1)Childhoodisthemostimportanttimeinone'slife,somothershouldtakecareoftheirbaby,tohelpthembuiltahealthycharacter.So,ladyshouldleaveathometotakecareoftheirbaby.
(2)Tosupportherhusband.Inordertoletherhusbandkeephismindonhiswork.
Yes,becausemothersaretheclosestpersontotheirchildren,andmotherloveeffectchildrensomuch.Somechildrendon'thavemotherswhentheyareyoungsotheyalwaysfeelslonelyandsomerudepeopleisgoingtocallthemscardycat.Soithinkmothersshouldstayhomeandtakingcareoftheirchildren.
Theimportanceofmothers
Moms,didyoueverquestionyourvalueasarolemodel,caretaker,administerofhugsandBand-Aids?
Ithinkweallhaveintoday'sclimateof"domore,getmore,havemore."Manyofusworktobringhomeapaycheckandothersworkforoursanity.Haveyoueverwonderedifyourchildrenwerebetteroffwiththebabysitterthanyou?
Scientificstudiesarebeginningtopointtotheoverwhelmingvalueofamother'slove,hugsandsupport.Nannies,baby-sittersandrelativesareterrific.Theyjustaren'tasterrificasMom.
Ihavehadthebestofbothworlds,Isuspect.Iworkedahigh-poweredexecutivejobuntilmyolderdaughterwas2andahalf.Atacrossroadsinmycareer,Ioptedto"getpregnantandstayhomeforayear."HA!
LittledidIrealizeIwasabouttotakeaten-yearhiatusfrommymuch-lovedlife!
Ididn'tgetpregnantrightaway,but,afterhavingspentayearbaskingintheglowofbeingMom,Icouldn'tbeargivingupthecareandnurturingofmydaughtertoanothernanny,nomatterhowwonderful.Ithinkitwasthebestcareermoveofmylife.
Well,tenyearslater,Iambackintheworkforceandthriving.Yes,Ifeltboredmuchofthetime.Yes,ourfamilysacrificedthebiggerhouse,fanciercarsandvacationssomeofourpeerswereenjoying.Butitwasaconsciousdecisiontosacrificeforthebenefitofourchildren.Wewantedourmorals,ourethicsandourlifelessonstoinfluenceourchildren.
Ithinkmomscanworkathome,behomemakersorworkoutsideofthehomeandstillbegreatmoms.Themostimportantpartofmothering,Ifeel,isbeingthereforourchildren.Maybeyoursacrificeisgoingtoworkbutspendingyourpreciouslittlefreetimereadingyourchildabedtimestoryeverynight,takinghimtotheparkonSaturdaysorchaperoningyourdaughter'sschooldance.Whatmattersisourinput,theconfidenceinourrolesasmothersandknowingwearethebestpersonfortherole...tounderstandhowvaluablewearetosociety.
Patyourselvesonthebacks...you'veaccomplishedamiracle!
Thereisnogreatersacrificeonearth,inmyopinion,thanmakingthedecisiontobeaparent.Knowhowimportantyouare.Knowthatyourchildrenneedyoutobeassolidanindividualasyoucanbe.Thereinliesyourstrengthasamother,whetheryouspendalldayathomeorinanoffice.Weareallexceptionalwomeninourmotherhood.
Babiesgivenmoreloveandaffectionbytheirmothersdealbetterwithstressandanxietywhentheygrowup,researchhasshown.
Thestudylookedateight-month-oldchildren-meaningeventheveryearliestlifeexperienceswhichwedonotrememberinadulthoodcaninfluenceourwell-being.
Lotsofmaternal(母亲的)lovemakeschildrenformasecurebondwiththeirmothers,meaningtheyareabletofeelsecureinrelationshipswhengrownup,willhavebettersocialskillsandcopebetterwithlife'sdifficulties,thestudyfound.
Despitegrowinginterestinhowearlylifeaffectsusinadulthood,mostpreviousstudieshavereliedonpeople'srecollections(回忆,记忆)-whereasthisresearchtrackedparticipantsfromearlychildhoodtoadultlife.
Theresearchers,ledbyDrJoannaMaselkoofDukeUniversityinNorthCarolina,ratedtherelationshipsof482eight-month-oldbabieswiththeirmothersduringroutinedevelopmentalassessment.
Theylookedathowwellthemotherhadcopedwithherchild'sdevelopmentaltestsandhowshehadrespondedtothechild'sperformance.
Theamountofaffectionandattentionshegavetoherchildwascategorisedintogroupsrangingfrom'negative'to'extravagant(奢侈的,浪费的)'.
Mentalhealthwasthenassessedwhenthebabieshadgrownup-attheaverageageof34.
Adultswhosemothershadbeenthemostaffectionate(深情的)duringtheirassessmentasbabieshadthelowestlevelsofanxiety,hostilityandgeneraldistress.
Firststatement:
Intoday'ssociety,womenoftenfeelthattobeseenassuccessful,theyshouldhavetobalancetheircareer,childrenandtheirmarriage.However,mostwomenareforcetostayathometoraisechildrenandgiveuptheirowncareer.It’sunfairforwomentodevoteallherlifetimeinfamilyinsteadofcatchinguptheopportunitiestolivewhatevertheywant.Soourgroupinsiststhatwomenshouldn’tstayathometoraisechildren,hereisourmainpoints.
First,womenandmenareborntobeequal,there’snoanysayingthatwomenareborntoraisechildandtheyhavetoscarifytheirownlife. Womenalsohavetheabilityanddrivetodomanythingsamancando. Theyhavethelegalrightasanyoneelsetodecidewhatisbestforthemandtheirchildren.
Second,inchina,parentsneedalotofmoneytoraisechildren.Asingleincomeisnotenoughtocomfortablysupportafamily,especiallythosesinglefamilies.Mothershavetogetoutworkingsoastoensurethattheirchildrenhavethebeststartinlife.Theycanaffordthebesteducationandbestqualityoflifestyle.
Third,manyformsofchildcarecanbebeneficialandcomplimentarytothecareprovidedbyparents.Oldergenerationssuchasgrandparentscouldhandsonexperiencewithyoungchildrenandalsothechildcareprofessionalshavesimilarexperienceandtheyoftentakecoursesonchilddevelopment,whichmakesthemmoreknowledgeablethanafirsttimeparents.AndIthinkthiswouldhelptoimprovechildren’ssocialskillsandmoreindependentthanthosewhorelyontheirparents.
Inaword,womenshouldn’tstayathometoraisetheirchildren.
Mainpoints:
1. Don'tyouwantyourself(yourdaughters)tohavethesameopportunitiesasmen?
2. Howcanmothersteachtheirkidslifelessonsifassoonastheyhadkids,theystoppedlearningthemselves?
3. Howdoyouthinkoftheequalrightbetweenmenandwomen?
Doyouthinkthatisequalforwomentostayathometoraisechildren?
4. Whenyougraduatefromcollege,doyouwillingtojustbeahousewifeandthrowawayyourprofessionalknowledgethatyouhavebeenlearningforyears?
5. Somechildrenarerebellious,becausetheirmothersalwayswantthemtoobeymanyroles,andthiswilldefinitelyleadtoaverybadrelationship.Howdoyouthinkaboutthat?
6. Inwhatwayscanyouachieveyourpersonalvalues?
Stayingathometoraisechildisagoodway?
Supportingideas:
1. Mothersshouldhavemuchfreedomasanyoneelseinsocietytodecidewhatisbestforthemandtheirchildren.Itwouldcausedepressionifwomenareforcedtogiveupworktheyenjoytocarefortheirchildren.
2. Expectingmotherstostayathomewillalsomakethechildrenmoredependentupontheirparents.
3. Playingwithotherchildrenisjustasimportantforimprovingchildren’ssocialskillsascontactwiththeirparents.Nurseriesandchildminderscanbegoodplacetoexposechildrentootherchildren.
4. Focusingonthemotherwillneglectstheresponsibilitiesofthefather,otherfamilymembersinraisingthechildren.
5. Encouragingmotherstoworkincreasethenumberofpeopleintheworkforcetherebyincreasingtheproductivityofthecountry.Thisalsohelpstocreatejobsinthechildcaresector,generatingemploymentformorepeople.
6. Teenagersespeciallytendtodisengagefromtheirparents,andthiscanleaveastay-at-homemomveryconfused,andtendstomakeherfeelsomewhatworthless becausetheyfeeltheyareowedsomehowforhavingsacrificedsomuchtostayathomeandraisetheirchildren
7. Womengetoutworkingdoesn’tmeanthattheycan’tbalanceboththeworkandtheirfamily.Afterwork,theystillhavetimetoplaywithkids.
8. Womenstayathomewouldbefarawayfromtheoutsideworld,theyknowlittle,andthiswillleadtothegenerationgap.
9. It’snotenoughtohavingasingleincomeforafamily,whenyouwanttoofferabettereducationandqualityoflifestyletothechildren.
10. Workingwillmakethewomenmoreconfidentandleadaverygoodmodelfortheirchildren.
11. Stayingathome,womenwouldfindthemselvesworthless.
妈妈在外工作对孩子的直接影响是和孩子沟通的时间少了孩子和妈妈可能不如全职妈妈和孩子们亲.孩子没了撒娇对象可能会造成些心理上的自卑.此外孩子由于缺乏监管,容易外出寻找一些刺激.容易变坏.间接影响是母亲通常会因没能足够时间陪孩子而感到内疚,对孩子在金钱物质上容易满足,某些方面特别溺爱.使孩子养成娇惯的坏毛病.一些此领域的研究人员通过抽样调查,发现在母亲在外工作的孩子在阅读能力和算数能力上不如全职母亲照顾的孩子强,
full-timehousewife
Mothersworkoutsidethedirectimpactonchildrenandchildrenlesstimetocommunicatethechildandmothermaynotbeaspro-full-timemotherandthechildren.Notaspoiledchildobjectmaycausesomepsychologicalsenseofinferiority.Inadditionthechildduetolackofsupervision,easygo lookingforsomeexcitement.vulnerable.indirecteffectsofthemother,usuallyaccompaniedbysufficienttimedidnotfeelguiltyabouttheirchildren,moneyandmaterialforchildrenineasytomeet,particularlyfondofcertainaspects.sothatchildrendevelopbadhabitspampered.Some researchersinthisfieldthroughthesamplesurvey,foundthatchildre
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