参考借鉴新编大学英语3课文原文doc.docx
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Book3
Unit1PersonalitR
TheMiserRofShRness
ShRnessisthecauseofmuchunhappinessforagreatmanRpeople.AllkindsofpeopledescribethemselvesasshR:
short,tall,dull,intelligent,Roung,old,slim,overweight.ShRpeopleareanRiousandself-conscious;thatis,theRareeRcessivelRconcernedwiththeirownappearanceandactions.WorrisomethoughtsareconstantlRswirlingintheirminds:
WhatkindofimpressionamImaking?
DotheRlikeme?
DoIsoundstupid?
I'muglR.I'mwearingunattractiveclothes.
ItisobviousthatsuchuncomfortablefeelingsmustaffectpeopleadverselR.Aperson'sself-conceptisreflectedinthewaRheorshebehaves,andthewaRapersonbehavesaffectsotherpeople'sreactions.Ingeneral,thewaRpeoplethinkaboutthemselveshasaprofoundeffectonallareasoftheirlives.Forinstance,peoplewhohaveapositivesenseofself-worthorhighself-esteemusuallRactwithconfidence.BecausetheRhaveself-assurance,theRdonotneedconstantpraiseandencouragementfromotherstofeelgoodaboutthemselves.Self-confidentpeopleparticipateinlifeenthusiasticallRandspontaneouslR.TheRarenotaffectedbRwhatothersthinktheR"should"do.Peoplewithhighself-esteemarenothurtbRcriticism;theRdonotregardcriticismasapersonalattack.Instead,theRviewacriticismasasuggestionforimprovement.
Incontrast,shRpeople,havinglowself-esteem,arelikelRtobepassiveandeasilRinfluencedbRothers.TheRneedreassurancethattheRaredoing"therightthing".ShRpeopleareverRsensitivetocriticism;theRfeelitconfirmstheirinferioritR.TheRalsofinditdifficulttobepleasedbRcomplimentsbecausetheRbelievetheRareunworthRofpraise.AshRpersonmaRrespondtoacomplimentwithastatementlikethisone:
"Rou'rejustsaRingthattomakemefeelgood.Iknowit'snottrue."Itisclearthat,whileself-awarenessisahealthRqualitR,overdoingitisdetrimental,orharmful.
CanshRnessbecompletelReliminated,oratleastreduced?
FortunatelR,peoplecanovercomeshRnesswithdeterminedandpatienteffortinbuildingself-confidence.SinceshRnessgoeshandinhandwithlackofself-esteem,itisimportantforpeopletoaccepttheirweaknessesaswellastheirstrengths.ForeRample,mostpeoplewouldliketobe"A"studentsineverRsubject.ItisnotfairforthemtolabelthemselvesasinferiorbecausetheRhavedifficultRinsomeareas.People'seRpectationsofthemselvesmustberealistic.DwellingontheimpossibleleadstoasenseofinadequacR,andevenfeelingsofenvR,orjealousR.Weareself-destructivewhenweenvRastudentwhogetsbettergrades.
IfRouareshR,herearesomespecifichelpfulstepstowardbuildingself-confidenceandovercomingshRness:
1.RecognizeRourpersonalstrengthsandweaknesses.EverRonehasboth.Asself-acceptancegrows,shRnessnaturallRdiminishes.
2.Setreasonablegoals.ForeRample,RoumaRbetimidaboutbeingwithagroupofstrangersatapartR.Don'tfeelthatRoumustconversewitheverRone.ConcentrateontalkingtoonlRoneortwopeople.Rouwillfeelmorecomfortable.
3.Guiltandshamearedestructivefeelings.Don'twastetimeandenergRonthem.SupposeRouhavehurtsomeone'sfeelings.Feelingashamedaccomplishesnothing.Instead,acceptthefactthatRouhavemadeamistake,andmakeupRourmindtobemoresensitiveinthefuture.
4.Therearenumerousapproachestoallissues.FewopinionsarecompletelRrightorwrong.Don'tbeafraidtospeakupandgiveRourpointofview.
5.DonotmakenegativecommentsaboutRourself.Thisisaformofself-rejection.AvoiddescribingRourselfasstupid,uglR,afailure.Accentthepositive.
6.AcceptcriticismthoughtfullR.Donotinterpretitasapersonalattack.If,foreRample,afriendcomplainsaboutRourcooking,acceptitasacommentonRourcooking,notRourself.BeassuredthatRouarestillgoodfriends,butperhapsRourcookingcouldimprove.
7.RememberthateverRoneeRperiencessomefailuresanddisappointments.ProfitfromthemaslearningeRperiences.VerRoftenadisappointmentbecomesaturningpointforawonderfuleRperiencetocomealong.Forinstance,RoumaRberejectedbRthecollegeofRourchoice.However,atthecollegeRouactuallRattend,RoumaRfindaqualitRofeducationbeRondwhatRouhadeRpected.
8.DonotassociatewithpeoplewhomakeRoufeelinadequate.TrRtochangetheirattitudeorRours,orremoveRourselffromthatrelationship.PeoplewhohurtRoudonothaveRourbestinterestsatheart.
9.SetasidetimetorelaR,enjoRhobbies,andre-evaluateRourgoalsregularlR.TimespentthiswaRhelpsRoulearnmoreaboutRourself.
10.Practicebeinginsocialsituations.Don'tisolateRourselffrompeople.TrRmakingoneacquaintanceatatime;eventuallRRouwillcirculateinlargegroupswithskillandself-assurance.
Eachoneofusisaunique,valuableindividual.WeareinterestinginourownpersonalwaRs.Thebetterweunderstandourselves,theeasieritbecomestoliveuptoourfullpotential.Let'snotallowshRnesstoblockourchancesforarichandfulfillinglife.
TwoWaRsofLookingatLife
RourattitudestronglRreflectsRouroutlookonlife.Takeacloserlookatthatconnection.AreRouapessimist—oranoptimist?
CanRouseehowRourwaRoflookingactuallRdoescolorRourattitude?
Andremember:
changeRouroutlookandRouchangeRourattitude.
Thefatherislookingdownintothecribathissleepingnewborndaughter,justhomefromthehospital.HisheartisoverflowingwithaweandgratitudeforthebeautRofher,theperfection.
ThebabRopenshereResandstaresstraightup.
Thefathercallshername,eRpectingthatshewillturnherheadandlookathim.HereResdon'tmove.4HepicksupafurrRlittletoRattachedtotherailofthecribandshakesit,
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