英语演讲稿用肢体语言来塑造自己.docx
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英语演讲稿用肢体语言来塑造自己
英语演讲稿:
用肢体语言来塑造自己
肢体语言影响着他人对我们的看法,但同时它也影响着我们对自己的看法。
我们如何用用肢体语言来塑造自己,我们一起来学习英语演讲稿:
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英语演讲稿:
用肢体语言来塑造自己
SoIwanttostartbyofferingyouafreeno-techlifehack,andallitrequiresofyouisthis:
thatyouchangeyourposturefortwominutes.ButbeforeIgiveitaway,Iwanttoaskyoutorightnowdoalittleauditofyourbodyandwhatyou’redoingwithyourbody.Sohowmanyofyouaresortofmakingyourselvessmaller?
Maybeyou’rehunching,crossingyourlegs,maybewrappingyourankles.Sometimesweholdontoourarmslikethis.Sometimeswespreadout.(Laughter)Iseeyou.(Laughter)SoIwantyoutopayattentiontowhatyou’redoingrightnow.We’regoingtoebacktothatinafewminutes,andI’mhopingthatifyoulearntotweakthisalittlebit,itcouldsignificantlychangethewayyourlifeunfolds.
So,we’rereallyfascinatedwithbodylanguage,andwe’reparticularlyinterestedinotherpeople’sbodylanguage.Youknow,we’reinterestedin,like,youknow(Laughter)anawkwardinteraction,orasmile,oracontemptuousglance,ormaybeaveryawkwardwink,ormaybeevensomethinglikeahandshake.
Narrator:
HeretheyarearrivingatNumber10,andlookatthisluckypolicemangetstoshakehandswiththePresidentoftheUnitedStates.Oh,andhereesthePrimeMinisterofthe?
No.(Laughter)(Applause)(Laughter)(Applause)
AmyCuddy:
Soahandshake,orthelackofahandshake,canhaveustalkingforweeksandweeksandweeks.EventheBBCandTheNewYorkTimes.Soobviouslywhenwethinkaboutnonverbalbehavior,orbodylanguage--butwecallitnonverbalsassocialscientists--it’slanguage,sowethinkaboutmunication.Whenwethinkaboutmunication,wethinkaboutinteractions.Sowhatisyourbodylanguagemunicatingtome?
What’sminemunicatingtoyou?
Andthere’salotofreasontobelievethatthisisavalidwaytolookatthis.Sosocialscientistshavespentalotoftimelookingattheeffectsofourbodylanguage,orotherpeople’sbodylanguage,onjudgments.Andwemakesweepingjudgmentsandinferencesfrombodylanguage.Andthosejudgmentscanpredictreallymeaningfullifeouteslikewhowehireorpromote,whoweaskoutonadate.Forexample,NaliniAmbady,aresearcheratTuftsUniversity,showsthatwhenpeoplewatch30-secondsoundlessclipsofrealphysician-patientinteractions,theirjudgmentsofthephysician’snicenesspredictwhetherornotthatphysicianwillbesued.Soitdoesn’thavetodosomuchwithwhetherornotthatphysicianwasinpetent,butdowelikethatpersonandhowtheyinteracted?
Evenmoredramatic,AlexTodorovatPrincetonhasshownusthatjudgmentsofpoliticalcandidates’facesinjustonesecondpredict70percentof.Senateandgubernatorialraceoutes,andeven,let’sgodigital,emoticonsusedwellinonlinenegotiationscanleadtoyouclaimmorevaluefromthatnegotiation.Ifyouusethempoorly,badidea.Right?
Sowhenwethinkofnonverbals,wethinkofhowwejudgeothers,howtheyjudgeusandwhattheoutesare.Wetendtoforget,though,theotheraudiencethat’sinfluencedbyournonverbals,andthat’sourselves.
Wearealsoinfluencedbyournonverbals,ourthoughtsandourfeelingsandourphysiology.SowhatnonverbalsamItalkingabout?
I’masocialpsychologist.Istudyprejudice,andIteachatapetitivebusinessschool,soitwasinevitablethatIwouldbeeinterestedinpowerdynamics.Ibecameespeciallyinterestedinnonverbalexpressionsofpoweranddominance.
Andwhatarenonverbalexpressionsofpoweranddominance?
Well,thisiswhattheyare.Sointheanimalkingdom,theyareaboutexpanding.Soyoumakeyourselfbig,youstretchout,youtakeupspace,you’rebasicallyopeningup.It’saboutopeningup.Andthisistrueacrosstheanimalkingdom.It’snotjustlimitedtoprimates.Andhumansdothesamething.(Laughter)Sotheydothisbothwhentheyhavepowersortofchronically,andalsowhenthey’refeelingpowerfulinthemoment.Andthisoneisespeciallyinterestingbecauseitreallyshowsushowuniversalandoldtheseexpressionsofpowerare.Thisexpression,whichisknownaspride,JessicaTracyhasstudied.Sheshowsthatpeoplewhoarebornwithsightandpeoplewhoarecongenitallyblinddothiswhentheywinataphysicalpetition.Sowhentheycrossthefinishlineandthey’vewon,itdoesn’tmatterifthey’veneverseenanyonedoit.Theydothis.SothearmsupintheV,thechinisslightlylifted.Whatdowedowhenwefeelpowerless?
Wedoexactlytheopposite.Wecloseup.Wewrapourselvesup.Wemakeourselvessmall.Wedon’twanttobumpintothepersonnexttous.Soagain,bothanimalsandhumansdothesamething.Andthisiswhathappenswhenyouputtogetherhighandlowpower.Sowhatwetendtodowhenitestopoweristhatweplementtheother’snonverbals.Soifsomeoneisbeingreallypowerfulwithus,wetendtomakeourselvessmaller.Wedon’tmirrorthem.Wedotheoppositeofthem.
SoI’mwatchingthisbehaviorintheclassroom,andwhatdoInotice?
InoticethatMBAstudentsreallyexhibitthefullrangeofpowernonverbals.Soyouhavepeoplewhoarelikecaricaturesofalphas,reallyingintotheroom,theygetrightintothemiddleoftheroombeforeclassevenstarts,liketheyreallywanttooccupyspace.Whentheysitdown,they’resortofspreadout.Theyraisetheirhandslikethis.Youhaveotherpeoplewhoarevirtuallycollapsingwhentheyein.Assoontheyein,youseeit.Youseeitontheirfacesandtheirbodies,andtheysitintheirchairandtheymakethemselvestiny,andtheygolikethiswhentheyraisetheirhand.Inoticeacoupleofthingsaboutthis.One,you’renotgoingtobesurprised.Itseemstoberelatedtogender.Sowomenaremuchmorelikelytodothiskindofthingthanmen.Womenfeelchronicallylesspowerfulthanmen,sothisisnotsurprising.ButtheotherthingInoticedisthatitalsoseemedtoberelatedtotheextenttowhichthestudentswereparticipating,andhowwelltheywereparticipating.AndthisisreallyimportantintheMBAclassroom,becauseparticipationcountsforhalfthegrade.
Sobusinessschoolshavebeenstrugglingwiththisgendergradegap.Yougettheseequallyqualifiedwomenandmeninginandthenyougetthesedifferencesingrades,anditseemstobepartlyattributabletoparticipation.SoIstartedtowonder,youknow,okay,soyouhavethesepeopleinginlikethis,andthey’reparticipating.Isitpossiblethatwecouldgetpeopletofakeitandwoulditleadthemtoparticipatemore?
SomymaincollaboratorDanaCarney,who’satBerkeley,andIreallywantedtoknow,canyoufakeittillyoumakeit?
Like,canyoudothisjustforalittlewhileandactuallyexperienceabehavioraloutethatmakesyouseemmorepowerful?
Soweknowthatournonverbalsgovernhowotherpeoplethinkandfeelaboutus.There’salotofevidence.Butourquestionreallywas,doournonverbalsgovernhowwethinkandfeelaboutourselves?
There’ssomeevidencethattheydo.So,forexample,wesmilewhenwefeelhappy,butalso,whenwe’reforcedtosmilebyholdingapeninourteethlikethis,itmakesusfeelhappy.Soitgoesbothways.Whenitestopower,italsogoesbothways.Sowhenyoufeelpowerful,you’remorelikelytodothis,butit’salsopossiblethatwhenyoupretendtobepowerful,youaremorelikelytoactuallyfeelpowerful.
Sothesecondquestionreallywas,youknow,soweknowthatourmindschangeourbodies,butisitalsotruethatourbodieschangeourminds?
AndwhenIsayminds,inthecaseofthepowerful,whatamItalkingabout?
SoI’mtalkingaboutthoughtsandfeelingsandthesortofphysiologicalthingsthatmakeupourthoughtsandfeelings,andinmycase,that’shormones.Ilookathormones.Sowhatdothemindsofthepowerfulversusthepowerlesslooklike?
Sopowerfulpeopletendtobe,notsurprisingly,moreassertiveandmoreconfident,moreoptimistic.Theyactuallyfeelthatthey’regoingtowinevenatgamesofchance.Theyalsotendtobeabletothinkmoreabstractly.Sotherearealotofdifferences.Theytakemorerisks.Therearealotofdifferencesbetweenpowerfulandpowerlesspeople.Physiologically,therealsoaredifferencesontwokeyhormones:
testosterone,whichisthedominancehormone,andcortisol,whichisthestresshormone.Sowhatwefindisthathigh-poweralphamalesinprimatehierarchieshavehightestosteroneandlowcortisol,andpowerfulandeffectiveleadersalsohavehightestosteroneandlowcortisol.Sowhatdoesthatmean?
Whenyouthinkaboutpower,peopletendedtothinkonlyabouttestosterone,becausethatwasaboutdominance.Butreally,powerisalsoabouthowyoureacttostress.Sodoyouwantthehigh-powerleaderthat’sdominant,highontestosterone,butreallystressreactive?
Probablynot,right?
Youwantthepersonwho’spowerfulandassertiveanddominant,butnotverystressreactive,thepersonwho’slaidback.
Soweknowthatinprimatehierarchies,ifanalphaneedstotakeover,ifaninpidualneedstotakeoveranalpharolesortofsuddenly,withinafewdays,thatinpidual’stestosteronehasgoneupsignificantlyandhiscortisolhasdroppedsignificantly.Sowehavethisevidence,boththatthebodycanshapethemind,atleastatthefaciallevel,andalsothatrolechangescanshapethemind.Sowhathappens,okay,youtakearolechange,whathappensifyoudothatatareallyminimallevel,likethistinymanipulation,thistinyintervention?
Fortwominutes,yousay,Iwantyoutostandlikethis,andit’sgoingtomakeyoufeelmorepowerful.
Sothisiswhatwedid.Wedecidedtobringpeopleintothelabandrunalittleexperiment,andthesepeopleadopted,fortwominutes,eitherhigh-powerposesorlow-powerpos
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