How to Smile.docx
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HowtoSmile
HowtoSmile
1.Enjoythemany benefitsofasmile.Inordertowanttosmile,itreallyhelpstoknowwhatbenefitsasmilecanbringtoyourday.Thefollowingbenefitsareboundtomakeyouleantowardssharingasmilewithothersmostoftheday:
oSmilesimproveyourappearance.CharlesGordyoncequipped:
"Asmileisaninexpensivewaytochangeyourlooks".Allyouneedtodoisthinkabouthowyoufeelaboutapersonwhoisfrowningandapersonwhoissmiling–whotendstobethebetterlooking?
oSmilesmakethingsrightagainandsaymuchmorethanwordscan.Ifyou'vegoofed,saidsomethinglessthancomplimentary,feellostoralone,orfeeldown,asmilecansetthingsrightagain.Asmileletsotherpeopleknowthatyou'repreparedtobeopentothem,andthatyou'rewillinglyagreeingtosetthingsrightwhereneeded.
oSmilescreatetrustandrapport.Asmileisagreatwayofestablishingmutualfeelingsofbeingonthesamelevelasothers,whetherthatisone-to-oneorinfrontofagroupgivingapresentation.Asmilesays"I'mOK,you'reOK,andwe'reallgoingtoenjoyoneanother'scompany".
oSmilesmakeyoufeelgood.Evenifyou'refeelingalittleblue,inserthappythoughtsintoyourmindandjustaddthatsmile.Thesmilewilltrickyourmindintofeelingbetter,asendorphinsarereleasedtoreducephysicaloremotionalstress.[2][3]
oSmilesmakeotherpeoplefeelgood.Anopen-mouthedsmileisvisiblefromfurtherawaythanafrown,offeringpeoplereassurancethatyou'refriendly.[4] Anditmakespeoplefeelbettertoseeasmile,fromafarorcloseup.
oWrinklesarebetterwhenthey'resmilelinesratherthanfrownlines.MarkTwainsaid:
"Wrinklesshouldmerelyindicatewheresmileshavebeen";viewedthisway,smilesareanindicationofyouroverallcharacter,whichbecomesmoreandmoreoutwardlytellingasyouage!
oSmilingisagoodlong-termpredictorofhappierlifeoutcomes.[5] Smilingattractshealth,happiness,friends,success,andalongerlife.[6]
oSeeHowto SmileforBetterHealth.
oSeeHowto SmiletoBeHappy.
2.
Asmilelightsupyourface
Becomecomfortablewithsmiling.Ifyou'renotusedtosmilingregularly,overcomingyournervousnessorcynicismaboutsmilingcantakealittlepracticebutlikeanyhabit,it'seasytoreformwithtime.Somethingstokeepinmindinclude:
oAsmilealwayslooksgood.Feelingnervousaboutthebeautyorappearanceofyoursmileisunnecessary.Trustthatyoursmilemakesyoulookgreat.
oAsmileisprofessional.Smilingatworkorduringotherprofessionaloccasionsisnotgoingtomakeyouseemunprofessional.Quitetheopposite,asmilewillhumanizeyouandmakeyouappearmoreapproachable.Peoplewillappreciateyourrecognitionoftheirworthandofajobwelldonewhenyousmile.
oAsmilemakesyoureal.Ifyou'reafraidofappearingvulnerablewhenyousmile,acceptthatanyformofvulnerabilitysuggestedbyasmileispreciselywhatmakesitsuchapowerfulact.You'reopeningyourselfuptoothersandpeoplewillrespondbettertothatthantoaserious,unmoveddemeanor.Moreover,asmileaccompaniedbyan assertive personalitywilltakecareofanysensethatpeoplewilluseyoursmiletowalkalloveryou!
3.
Makeyoursmilegenuine.
Makeyoursmilegenuine.Whileitisperfectlypossibletocrackasmilewhenyoufeelterrible,angry,annoyed,oryou'reuptosomethingnefarious,agenuinesmileismuchhardertofake;indeed,onlyaround10percentofthepopulationcanmanagethatfeat.[7] Agenuinesmileisdetectablebyothersbecauseitisaccompaniedbyageneralglow,smilingeyeswheretheoutercornerscrinkleandthelowerlidtightens,andareassuringdemeanorthathelpstheviewertofeelmoreateaseinyourpresence.Agenuinesmilecomesfrombeing happy,positive,andfromdrawingyourfeelingsfromtheheart.
oThinkhappythoughts.Theeasiestwaytoafantastic,genuinesmileisto behappy.Thinkaboutsomeoneyoucareabout(perhapsthepersonstandinginfrontofyouasyousmile),aboutsomethingthatyougenuinelylovetodo,orthinkofafunnyjokethatyoujustfindhilarious.Orthinkaboutthehappiestmomentsinyourlife.
oBegenuine.Drawonyourheartfeltfeelings,notjustrationalizations.Whenyou'reconfrontedbyapersonorsituationthatmakesyoufeelambivalentandyou'reoscillatingbetweengivingthecoldshoulderorsmiling,erronthesideofsmiling–findonesinglethinginyourheartthatispositiveaboutthepersonorsituationbeforeyou,andusethattocreateyoursmile.
oLovepeople andyourlife.It'smucheasiertoproducefriendly,easygoing,genuinesmileswhenyoulovewhatyoudo,whenyoulovethepeoplearoundyou,andwhenyoulovehumanityingeneral.Begratefulforallthatyouhaveandyou'llfindsmilescomefarmorenaturally.
oBeplayful.Intensetimescanmakeustooserious.Seelifeasanadventure,begentleonyourselfandwatchchildrenatplay.Beingplayfulwillbringasmiletoyourfacemuchmoreeasily.
4.
Smilesarecontagious.
Smilewithyoureyes. Awholeheartedsmilewillnaturallydrawintheeyes.Itiscommonplacetohearapersonsay"hereyesweresmiling",ortosay"hedidn'tmeanit;hewassmilingbuthiseyesweren't".Theeyesareessentialforagenuine,warmsmile.Youreyeslightup,twinkle,andreflectyourhappiness.Whileit'shardtofakethisunlessyou'rereallyfeelingit,youcantrythisexercise:
oTogetafeelforhowtomakeyoureyessmile,standinfrontofa mirror andpracticesmiling,butconcentrateonlyonyoureyes.Youmayfindithelpfultocoverthelowerpartofyourfacewithapieceofpaper.Playaroundwithitabit,andyou'llfindthatyoucanmakeyourmouthsmilewhenyoureyesaren'tsmiling,andyoucanalsosmileonlywithyoureyes.Whenyoureyesdosmile,rememberhowitfeels,whichmusclesareworkingandhow.Withpractice,youmaydiscoverhowtosmilewithyoureyesatwillbyrelyingonyourfeelingsandmusclememory.
5.
Practiceyoursmile.
Practiceyoursmile.Thereisnoharminpracticingyoursmile–doingsowillincreaseyoursmilingconfidence,improveyoursenseofwell-being,[8] andhelpyoutolearnwhichofyoursmilesareyourbest.Lookatphotosofyourselfsmiling,withaclosedmouth,openmouth,andfromdifferentangles.Whichsmilesandposesmakeyourfacelightupthemost?
Whichsmiledisplaysyourotherfeaturestotheirbestpossibleadvantage?
Whichsmilecomesacrossasthemostnatural,themost"you"?
oFindthatpictureandfocusonwhatyourfaceisdoing.Thenpracticeinfrontofamirroruntilyougetitjustright.Keeppracticing,andpayattentiontohowthatgreatsmilefeels,sothatyou'llbeabletoreplicateitwithoutlookinginamirror.Soonitwillbecomesecondnature,andyou'lllikelyfindthatyou'lllook morephotogenic inyournextbatchofpictures.
oIfyouwanttoimproveyoursmile,lookatpicturesofsmilesyoubelievearebeautiful.Also,rememberthatyou'rebeautiful(insideandout);yoursmileisboundtolookbetterifyoufeelgoodaboutyourself!
oNotethedifferencebetweenasmileandagrin.Grinsbarealotmoreteeth(thinkCheshireCat)andarenotnecessarily flattering onallpeople,althoughforsomepeopletheycanmakeyouappearcute.Ifyou'repronetogrinningandit'snotdoingyourappearanceanyfavors,tryshowingonlyyourupperteethwhenyousmile.Showingyourlowerteethcanmakeitseemyou'rebaringyourteeth.
oWhenshowingteeth,pressingthetonguebehindtheteethwillmakesmallgapslooklessnoticeable.
oPracticesmilingatrandomstrangers.[9] Makeachoicethatyou'lldothis,makebriefeyecontactwithaperson,andsmile.Asyoudoso,thinkhappythoughts(ithelpstochoosesomeoneattractivetobeginwith).Don'tchooseapersonwithsunglasses;youneedtoseetheireyes.Noteveryonewillsmilebackbutnotehowyoufeelwhentheydo!
6.
Maintaingoodmouthhygiene.Onethingthatcancauseyoutofearsmilingistheworrythatthereissomethingstuckbetweenyourteeth,orthatyouhavebadbreath.Eliminatethesehygienesourcesofworrybytakingactivestepstokeepyourmouthfreshandclean.Brushyourteethregularly,carryflosswithyouwhereveryougosothatyoucancleanupafterdining,andhavebreathfresheneronyouatalltimes(naturalorcommercial).Inaddition,seeyourdentistregularlyforteethcheck-upsandcleaning,aswellasdiscussingoptionsforteethstraightening,etc.,ifthisisaconcernforyou.Whenyousmilepeoplewillinevitablylookatyourmouth,sofollowingtheseconsiderationswillhelpyoumakeabetterimpression,and,moreimportantly,ahealthymouthwillmakeyoufeelmoreconfidentaboutsmiling.
oVisitthedentistforapolishingorwhitening.Ifyourteetharestained,consideryourlifestylehabitsthatbringthisaboutandtrytominimizetheimpactsofsuchhabitsassmokingordrinkingtoomuchredwine,etc.
oKeepyourlipsingreatshapetoprevent chapping.
oDealwithbadbreath.Ifit'ssurface,cleaningandfreshenersshouldbeadequate.Ifthesedonotwork,itmaybeasignofanunderlyinghealthproblem,soseeyourdoctorforadvice.
7.
Expectsmilingtobedifficultinsomesituations.
Expectsmilingtobedifficultinsomesituations.Smilingondemandcanbedifficult,whetherit'sforaphotoorforthesakeofkeepingmomhappywhentherelativesyoucan'tstandvisit.Thisisbecauseyouarefeelingself-consciousoryoulackagenuinereasonforsmiling.Inthesesortsofcases,smilingneedstocomefromyourmemoryofgoodsmilesalongwithalittleself-kiddingorjokesinthehead.
oForaphoto,smile20percentmorethanyouthinkyoushould.[10]
oSmilewideandshowthetoprowofteeth.
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