英语专四听力talk全真模拟题MP3附文本.docx
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英语专四听力talk全真模拟题MP3附文本
1
SECTIONATALK
Inthissectionyouwillhearatalk
YouwillhearthetalkONCEONLY
Whilelistening,
youmaylookatANSWERSHEETONE
andwriteNOMORETHANTHREEWORDSforeachgap
Makesuretheword(s)youfillin
is(are)bothgrammaticallyandsemanticallyacceptable
Youmayusetheblanksheetfornote-taking
YouhaveTHIRTYsecondstopreviewthegap-fillingtask
Nowlistentothetalk
Whenitisover,youwillbegiven
TWOminutestocompleteyourwork
MasteringtheArtofConversation
Goodmorning,guys
Today'stopicisapracticalone
howtomastertheartofconversation?
Someofusarenaturallyoutgoing,
andit'spartofourpersonality;
forothers,itissimplypainful
andstrugglingtokeepaconversationgoingon
Actually,makingandpromotingconversations
isaskillthatcouldbelearnedthroughpractice
Herearesomeusefultipstostartwith
First,makeeyecontact
Ifyou'reinasocialsituation,
suchasataparty,
trytomakeeyecontactwiththeotherpeople
Onceyou'veestablishedeyecontact,
givetheotherpersonafriendly,smilinglook
Iftheotherpersonholdsyourgaze,
goovertothemDoublepointsiftheysmileback!
Iftheydon'trespond,letthemgotheirway
There'sadifferencebetweenbeing"outgoing"and"pushy"
Youdon'twanttoforceinteractiononsomeone
whoisn'tinterested
Thisapproachdoesn'tworkwellinsituations
whereothersdonotcommonlyexpecttobeapproached,
suchaswhileridingpublictransit
Partofbeingoutgoingisknowing
whenandwheretoapproachothers
andwhentokeeptoyourself
Second,askopen-endedquestions
Onewaytobemoreoutgoinginyourconversations
withothersistoaskthemopen-endedquestions
Thesequestionsinviteotherstorespond
withmorethana"yes"or"no"
It'seasiertostartupachatwithsomeonenew
ifyouencouragethemtoshareaboutthemselves
Ifyou'vealreadyexchangedeyecontact
andsmileswithsomeone,
andyou'recloseby,startoffwithaquestion
Herearesomeideas
Howdoyoulikethatbookormagazine?
Whatisyourfavoritethingtodoaroundhere?
Wheredidyoufindthatawesomet-shirt?
Third,searchforacommonality
Firstconversationsbetweenpeopleareallabout
whatthetwopartiesmeshon
Inordertofindoutwhatyoucantalkabout,
youhavetoprobeforthingsyouhaveincommon
Ifyouworktogetherorhavemutualfriends
orhaveanythingthatlinksyoutogether,problemsolved
TalkingaboutthebossoryourfriendSusan
orthatcookingclass
willopenupfurthertopicsofdiscussion
Ifthispersonisastranger,
youcouldstartwiththescenario
Forexample,ifyou'reinabookstore,
youcouldasktheotherperson
forafavoritereadingrecommendation
Ifyou'rebothstuckinalongline,
youcouldmakeajokeaboutit
Offeracompliment,butbecarefultoavoidthings
thatsoundjudgmental
Forexample,youcouldsayyoulovetheperson'shaircut
andthenaskwhereshe/hegotitdone
Oryoucouldsaythatyou'vebeenlookingforapairofsneakers
liketheonestheotherperson'swearingforever,
andaskwhereshe/hegotthem
Avoidthingsthatarelikelytoseemoffensive,
suchascommentsontheperson'ssize,
skincolor,orphysicalattractiveness
Feelfreetotryashardasyouwant
andenjoybecomingtalkativeandoutgoing
However,alwayskeepinmind
thatthereisdefinitelynothingwrong
withbeinganintrovertandbeingshy
Nowyouhavetwominutestocompleteyourwork
ThisistheendofSectionATALK
2
]SECTIONATALK
Inthissectionyouwillhearatalk
YouwillhearthetalkONCEONLY
Whilelistening,
youmaylookatANSWERSHEETONE
andwriteNOMORETHANTHREEWORDSforeachgap
Makesuretheword(s)youfillin
is(are)bothgrammaticallyandsemanticallyacceptable
Youmayusetheblanksheetfornote-taking
YouhaveTHIRTYsecondstopreviewthegap-fillingtask
Nowlistentothetalk
Whenitisover,youwillbegiven
TWOminutestocompleteyourwork
StopBeingaPeoplePleaser
Goodafternoon
Today'stopicmightspeaktoalotofyouhere
Areyouapeoplepleaser?
Areyousickofbeing"toonice"?
Ifyouhappentobeapeoplepleaser,
thenpeoplearealwaystakingadvantageofyou
You'realsoprobablynotgetting
whatyouwantoutoflife
Stopthinkingaboutwhatwouldmakeothershappy
andfocusonwhatyouneed
It'stimetoshiftthefocusfromotherstoyourself
Youcouldstartwithsaying"no"
Don'tmakeupexcuses-giveyourreasons
fornotwantingsomething
Forexample,yourhusbandwantshisentirefamily
tocometoChristmasdinner,andyoujustcan'tfaceit
Say,"I'msorrydarling,
Ifindthepressureofentertaining
suchalargenumberofpeopleintolerable"
Yourbestfriendwantsyoutogowithhim
toapartythatwillbefullofpeoplethatyoucan'tstand?
Say,"Nothanks,BobIt'sjustnotmyscene"
Youdon'thavetosay"Seriously,Bob?
Yourfriendsarealljerks"
Asimple"no,thanks"willgenerallysuffice
Startsmallbyfindingsomethingsmalltosay"no"to,
andsayitfirmlySayitpolitely,butmeanit!
You'llbesurprised-theworld
willnotcollapsearoundyourears!
Peoplerarelytakeoffense,
andthosethatdoaren'tworthpleasing
Then,constantlyevaluateyourboundaries
Comparethosetothelimitsyousetonothers
Towhatextentareyouwillingto
restrictyouropennesstobeingusedbyothers?
Whatisacceptablebehaviorforyou
andwhatisunacceptable?
Beingabletoanalyzethisfactorallowsyou
tomeasurewhatcanbedoneforothers
andwhatshouldn'tbedoneforothers
inamuchmoreobjectivemanner
Isthatthesameforyouandforothers?
Doyouaccepttheunacceptable?
Toleratetheintolerable?
Normalizetheabnormal?
Doyouknowwhatitfeelsliketobetreated
withdignityandrespect?
Learnhowtoidentifyandlabelunacceptabletreatment
fromothersandhowtosetlimitsontheirbehavior
whentheyviolateyourboundaries
Lastbutnotleast,stopbasingyourself-worth
onhowmuchyoudoforotherpeople
It'snoblethatyouwanttohelpothers,
butit'ssomethingyoushoulddobecauseyouwantto,
notbecauseyoufeelyouhaveto
Thewillingnesstohelpothersshouldcomeafter
youknowhowtohelpyourself
Thegreatestactsofkindnessarethosedonebychoice,
notoutoffearorguilt
Ifyou'rehelpingotherstosuchanextent
thatyouareneglectingyourself,isthatreallywise?
And,ifyou'redoingthingsforothers
becauseyouwouldfeelbadifyoudidn't,
istheactionreallygenuine?
Wouldyouwantotherstohelpyouforthesamereason?
Pleaserememberneverthinkthattheworldaroundyou
willcollapseifyoufailtopleaseaperson
Afterall,itcanbedifficulttoimproveyourownlife
whenyou'retoobusyaccommodatingothers
Nowyouhavetwominutestocompleteyourwork
ThisistheendofSectionATALK
3
]SECTIONATALK
Inthissectionyouwillhearatalk
YouwillhearthetalkONCEONLY
Whilelistening,
youmaylookatANSWERSHEETONE
andwriteNOMORETHANTHREEWORDSforeachgap
Makesuretheword(s)youfillin
is(are)bothgrammaticallyandsemanticallyacceptable
Youmayusetheblanksheetfornote-taking
YouhaveTHIRTYsecondstopreviewthegap-fillingtask
Nowlistentothetalk
Whenitisover,youwillbegiven
TWOminutestocompleteyourwork
ApologizeEffectively
Anapologyisanexpressionofremorseforsomething
you'vedonewrong,andservesasaway
torepairarelationshipafterthatwrongdoing
Forgivenessoccurswhentheperson
whowashurtismotivatedtorepairtherelationship
withthepersonwhoinflictedthehurt
Aneffectiveapologywillcommunicatethreethings
regret,responsibility,andcommunication
Apologizingforamistakemightseemdifficult,
butitwillhelpyourepair
andimproveyourrelationshipswithothers
Firstofall,youneedtodemonstrateyourregret
Admitthatyouhaverealizedthatyouwerewrong
andyouarenowregretful
Rememberalwaysavoidjustifyingyouractions
It'snaturaltowanttojustifyyouractions
whenexplainingthemtoanotherperson
However,presentingjustifications
willoftenobscurethemeaningofanapology,
becausetheotherperson
mayperceivetheapologyasinsincere
Justificationsmayincludeclaimsthattheperson
youhurtmisunderstoodyou,
suchas"youtookitthewrongway"
Theymayalsoincludedenialofinjury,
suchas"itwasn'treallythatbad"
Next,acceptresponsibility
Beasspecificaspossiblewhenyouacceptresponsibility
Specificapologiesaremorelikely
tobemeaningfultotheotherperson,
becausetheyshowthatyouhavepaidattention
tothesituationthathurthim
Trytoavoidovergeneralizing
Sayingsomethinglike"I'materribleperson"isnottrue,
anditisn'tattentivetothespecificbehavior
orsituationthatcausedthehurt
Overgeneralizingmakesaddressing
theissueseemimpossible;
youcan'tfixbeinga"terribleperson"
aseasilyasyoucanfix"notpayingattention
tosomeoneelse'sneeds"
Forexample,continuetheapologybystatingwhat,
specifically,causedthehurt
"Ideeplyregrethurtingyourfeelingsyesterday
Ifeelterribleaboutcausingyoupain
Ishouldneverhavesnappedatyouforpickingmeuplate"
Third,communicationmattersmost
Listentotheotherperson
Theotherpersonmaywanttoexpresstheirfeelingstoyou
Shemaystillbeupset
Shemayhavemorequestionsforyou
Doyourbesttostaycalmandopen
Iftheotherpersonisstillupsetwithyou,
she/hemayreactinanunfavorableway
Ifthepersonyellsorinsultsyou,
thesenegativefeelings
maypreventforgivenessfro
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