关于爱的英语演讲稿Word文档格式.docx
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itisamercilessnetthatupsetsusoreventorturesustodeath.itisalsoasupremenetwhichalmostnohumancansurpass.eveniftheyareheroes,emperors,wisemenorsaints,theycandonothingbutshowtheirhelplessnessinitsface.thosewhocanbreathethroughtheholesofthenetshouldberegardedbeyondcommonnessandvulgarity.lovecanbringustemporarycomfortandhappiness,butmostlytheybringaboutannoyanceandsufferings.maybethisisthereasonwhymanypeoplehaveseenthroughtheillusionsofthemortalworld.howeveritisnotsoeasytobreakawayfromthisboundless,ever-existingandindifferentnetoflove.
loveisvariedandchangeable,butroughlyitcanbedividedintothreecategories:
familylove,fraternalloveandamatorylove.notlikemonkeykingwhojumpedoutoftherocks,wewereallbornaftermother'
spregnancyofaboutninemonths,hencewehavecountlessrelativeswithoutanychoice:
parents,grand-parents,andgrand-parents-in-law,unclesandaunties,brothersandsisters,etc.andoncelookingatthegenealogicaltree,we'
llseenoend.familyloveiswhateveryonelongsfor,butthewarmthandsupportfromourbelovedonesarewhateveryoneyearnsforthemost.buthowmanyofusaredeterminedtocontributetoourbelovedone?
andhowmanydon'
texpectrepaymentandrelaxed.conscienceeveniftheyhavethedesireandpreparationtocontributetotheirbeloved.thedistancebetweenrelativesisdifferentandsoaretheirexpectations.butsinceit'
sverydifficulttoknowhowmuchweshouldexpect,alotofworriesanddistressesemerge.
parentsalwaysexpecttheirchildrentoshowtheirfilialobedience,oratleastpaythemfrequentvisitsaftertheyhavegotmarried.ifthechildrenfailtodothis,theyfeelhurtandupset,andthey'
llevencomplainabouttheirchildren,becausetheyjustcan'
tunderstandwhytheirchildrendon'
tcareaboutthemafterwhattheyhavedoneforthechildrenforsomanyyearstobringthemup.nevertheless,one'
sexperiencedetermineshisideology.youngchildrenarenaturallyattachedtotheirparents,butwhentheygrowup,speciallywhentheyhavemadetheirownfriends,andgotmarried,whattheyneedmostisindependenceandfreedom,andparentssometimesmightbecometheirburden.oncethereisgenerationgap,itbecomesmoredifficulttocommunicateandthiskeepsthemawayfromtheirparents.objectivelyspeaking,theyneedmoreindependenceinordertoachievesuccess.inthepresentsociety,whatthechildrenwanttohavemostistheeconomicsupportfromtheirparents,nottheirmoralsupportorguidance.theywouldcomplainifyoureconomicsupportisnotuptotheirexpectations.thelovefromunclesandauntieswouldnaturallydwindleaftertheyhavehadtheirownchildren.onlythelovefromgrand-parentsandgrandparents-in-lawispureanddemandsnorepayment,andtheyarealsotoooldtowaitforanyrepayment.asforthedistantrelatives,theirlovedependsontheirneeds,justastheoldsayinggoes“thepoorhavenofriendseveniftheyliveindowntownwhiletherichhavedistantrelativeseveniftheyliveindeepmountains”.grannyliu,adistantkinsfolk,inadreamoftheredmansions,claimskinshipwiththewealthyjiafamily,thinkingthatshemaybenefitfromitinsomeways.liumighthaverunawaywithoutanytracesifthejiafamilyhadbeenapoorone.anothersayinggoes“closeneighborsarebetterthandistantrelatives.”themostdifficultistomanagetherelativeswhendoingbusinesstogether,justaswhatthetvseriesprogramliulaogendiscloses.itisallrighttostaypoortogether,butassoonasthebusinessgrowsprosperous,thegroupwillbecomeestrangedandevendissolvebecauseoftheunfairdistribution.familyloveislikeamazewhichweshouldn'
tgotoofarintoit,otherwise,we'
llsurelygetlost.loveisabilateralmatterandunilaterallovecanonlyleadyoutonowhereinspiteofyourgoodintentions.familyloveis,sometimes,likeanarrangedmarriage,leavingnochoicestoyou.duetothedifferentexperiencesandtastes,stayingtogeth
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ertemporarilycanbeentertaining,whilelivingtogetherforalongtimecanonlybeboringduetothelackofcommoninterestandunderstanding.howcanwecommunicatewitheachotherwithoutunderstanding?
parentshavethedutytosupportthechildrenwhoarenotyeteconomicallyindependent,andchildrenhavetheresponsibilitytoprovidefortheelderlyparentswhoarelackofeconomicabilitiestosupportthemselves.exceptthesetwokindsofdutieswhichwemustfulfill,otherkindsoflovebecomeconventionalformalitiessuchaspayingvisittothesickorthedeadandgivingpresentstothenewly-bornetc..
noloveamongrelativeshasbecomeanormalphenomenonwhichneedn'
ttobefussedabout.what'
sworseiswhenloveiscontaminatedbymoney.soonerorlaterwewillgethurt.thesoonerwegetoutofthisnetoflove,themorewecanpreservebeautifulmemories.
wearenotlivinginvacuum,andthesocietyisformedofvariouskindsofpeople.aslongaswewanttolive,study,orwork,wehavetocontact,communicateandcooperatewithothers.thosewhoenjoycommoninterests,mutualunderstanding,commonundertakingsandcommonbenefitsbecomefriends.
somefriendsarecalledfair-weatherfriends,becausetheyaretogetherjustforentertainingthemselvesbyeating,drinking,andgossiping.oncethere'
snothingtoeatanddrink,theirfriendshipisfinished.somearespiritualfriendswhosharecommonambitions,pursuitsandeducation.“theyenjoytalkingandlaughingwiththegreattalentsandnevermakefriendswiththegood-for-nothings”.thebestexampleswouldbeyuboyaandzhongziqioftheancienttimeswhoarefamousnotonlyfortheirloftymusicbutmainlyfortheirloftycharactersandmutualunderstandingandappreciation.theycaredverylittleaboutmaterialwealth,sotheirfriendshipisknownas“gentlemen'
sfriendshipaspureaswater”.thethirdtypeoffriendshipbelongtothosewhoshowtheirutterdevotiontoeachother.theyarereadynotonlytosharewealandwoebutalsotodieforeachother,likethethreebrothersliu,guanandzhanginthenovelromanceofthethreekingdoms..weallwishtohavethiskindoffriendship,butit'
sofgreatdifficultyfortheordinarypeopletobeasdevotedastheywere.
fraternalloveorfriendshipiswide-rangedandflexible.generallyspeaking,everyoneisourfriend,justaschairmanmaosays“ourfriendsareallovertheworld”.buttranscendage,sex,nationality,stateandeconomicconditions.tothemthemostimportantiscommonbenefit,commoninterestandunderstanding.friendshipisformedduringthecourseofstudying,workingandfighting.thebattlecompanionswhohavesurvivedmanyhazardsusuallyenjoylong-lastingfriendship.【1】【2】【3】【4】【5】【6】
however,fraternalloveisnotstable.beingawayfortooalongtime,losingallcommonbenefits,friendswillbecomeestranged.oncetheirinteresthaschanged,theynolongerunderstandeachother,andeventhiswouldharmfriendship.atalltimesandinallcountries,manyclosefriendsandbattlecompanionswhoonceworkedtogetherandfoughttogetherbecameenemiesintheend.quietafewoftheemperorsinancientchinaevenkilledthosewhohadhelpedthemfoundtheirdynasties.thetaipingheavenlykingdomwouldnothavefailedifithadn'
tbeenforthecontendingandmassacringamongthethosewhofirstroseinrebellionatthebeginningoftheuprising.whatelseweneedtopayattentiontoisthatsomefriends,afterbeingawayfromeachotherfortoolongatime,havelostsomuchoftheiroriginalcharactersthatwhenmeetingagain,youwillfeelthatyouarestillthesameasyouwere,whiletheyarenolongerthemselves.theymayhavethesamefeelingaboutyou,sosometimesit'
sbetternottomeeteachotheragain.asthechineseproverbgoes“friendshipcannotlastforthreeyearsandflowerscannotstayinblossomforthreemonths”.it'
snotsoeasytomaintainrealfriendshipwhichneedsmutualunderstanding,toleranceandsacrifice.anykindsofharshtreatmentwilldamagefriendship.
amatorylovehasbeenamysteryforages.there'
sneitheracriteriontojudgenoracommonruletofollow.nobodycantelltheexactreasonswhyloveemerges.itisnotalwaysbecauseofbeauty(theuglydoorkeeperquasimodointhehunchbackofnotredameislovedbythebeautifulgypsygirlesmeralda),norkindness(hitleralsohashismistress),norwisdom(eventheblockheadmaysometimesmarryabeautifulgirl),norstrength(somelovestartsfromsympathy).trueloveislikegettinganelectricshock,shakingoursoul.itisasweetdream,akindofintoxication,indulgence,andendlesspassion.
truelovedoesn'
tneedalongtimetogrowup,tomakeclearthefamilytreeoftheother,neitherdoesitneedsthetimetolookaheadandbehindagainandagain.loveisnotmarriage,whichusuallystartsfrom
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