TED英语演讲稿二十几岁不可挥霍的光阴附翻译Word格式.docx
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ssleepingwithaknucklehead,butit'
snotlikeshe'
sgoingtomarrytheguy."
andthenmysupervisorsaid,"
notyet,butshemightmarrythenextone.besides,thebesttimetoworkonalex'
smarriageisbeforeshehasone."
that'
swhatpsychologistscallan"
aha!
"
moment.thatwasthemomentirealized,30isnotthenew20.yes,peoplesettledownlaterthantheyusedto,butthatdidn'
tmakealex'
s20sadevelopmentaldowntime.thatmadealex'
s20sadevelopmentalsweetspot,andweweresittingthereblowingit.thatwaswhenirealizedthatthissortofbenignneglectwasarealproblem,andithadrealconsequences,notjustforalexandherlovelifebutforthecareersandthefamiliesandthefuturesoftwentysomethingseverywhere.
thereare50milliontwentysomethingsintheunitedstatesrightnow.we'
retalkingabout15percentofthepopulation,or100percentifyouconsiderthatnoone'
sgettingthroughadulthoodwithoutgoingthroughtheir20sfirst.
raiseyourhandifyou'
reinyour20s.ireallywanttoseesometwentysomethingshere.oh,yay!
y'
all'
sawesome.ifyouworkwithtwentysomethings,youloveatwentysomething,you'
relosingsleepovertwentysomethings,iwanttosee—okay.awesome,twentysomethingsreallymatter.
soispecializeintwentysomethingsbecauseibelievethateverysingleoneofthose50milliontwentysomethingsdeservestoknowwhatpsychologists,sociologists,neurologistsandfertilityspecialistsalreadyknow:
thatclaimingyour20sisoneofthesimplest,yetmosttransformative,thingsyoucandoforwork,forlove,foryourhappiness,maybeevenfortheworld.
thisisnotmyopinion.thesearethefacts.weknowthat80percentoflife'
smostdefiningmomentstakeplacebyage35.thatmeansthateightoutof10ofthedecisionsandexperiencesand"
momentsthatmakeyourlifewhatitiswillhavehappenedbyyourmid-30s.peoplewhoareover40,don'
tpanic.thiscrowdisgoingtobefine,ithink.weknowthatthefirst10yearsofacareerhasanexponentialimpactonhowmuchmoneyyou'
regoingtoearn.weknowthatmorethanhalfofamericansaremarriedorarelivingwithordatingtheirfuturepartnerby30.weknowthatthebraincapsoffitssecondandlastgrowthspurtinyour20sasitrewiresitselfforadulthood,whichmeansthatwhateveritisyouwanttochangeaboutyourself,nowisthetimetochangeit.weknowthatpersonalitychangesmoreduringyour20sthanatanyothertimeinlife,andweknowthatfemalefertilitypeaksatage28,andthingsgettrickyafterage35.soyour20sarethetimetoeducateyourselfaboutyourbodyandyouroptions.
sowhenwethinkaboutchilddevelopment,weallknowthatthefirstfiveyearsareacriticalperiodforlanguageandattachmentinthebrain.it'
satimewhenyourordinary,day-to-daylifehasaninordinateimpactonwhoyouwillbecome.butwhatwehearlessaboutisthatthere'
ssuchathingasadultdevelopment,andour20sarethatcriticalperiodofadultdevelopment.
butthisisn'
twhattwentysomethingsarehearing.newspaperstalkaboutthechangingtimetableofadulthood.researcherscallthe20sanextendedadolescence.journalistscoinsillynicknamesfortwentysomethingslike"
twixters"
and"
kidults."
it'
strue.asaculture,wehavetrivializedwhatisactuallythedefiningdecadeofadulthood.
leonardbernsteinsaidthattoachievegreatthings,youneedaplanandnotquiteenoughtime.isn'
tthattrue?
sowhatdoyouthinkhappenswhenyoupatatwentysomethingontheheadandyousay,"
youhave10extrayearstostartyourlife"
?
nothinghappens.youhaverobbedthatpersonofhisurgencyandambition,andabsolutelynothinghappens.
andtheneveryday,smart,interestingtwentysomethingslikeyouorlikeyoursonsanddaughterscomeintomyofficeandsaythingslikethis:
"
iknowmyboyfriend'
snogoodforme,butthisrelationshipdoesn'
tcount.i'
mjustkillingtime."
ortheysay,"
everybodysaysaslongasigetstartedonacareerbythetimei'
m30,i'
llbefine."
butthenitstartstosoundlikethis:
my20sarealmostover,andihavenothingtoshowformyself.ihadabetterré
sumé
thedayafterigraduatedfromcollege."
andthenitstartstosoundlikethis:
datinginmy20swaslikemusicalchairs.everybodywasrunningaroundandhavingfun,butthensometimearound30itwaslikethemusicturnedoffandeverybodystartedsittingdown.ididn'
twanttobetheonlyoneleftstandingup,sosometimesithinkimarriedmyhusbandbecausehewastheclosestchairtomeat30."
wherearethetwentysomethingshere?
donotdothat.
okay,nowthatsoundsalittleflip,butmakenomistake,thestakesareveryhigh.whenalothasbeenpushedtoyour30s,thereisenormousthirtysomethingpressuretojump-startacareer,pickacity,partnerup,andhavetwoorthreekidsinamuchshorterperiodoftime.manyofthesethingsareincompatible,andasresearchisjuststartingtoshow,simplyharderandmorestressfultodoallatonceinour30s.
thepost-millennialmidlifecrisisisn'
tbuyingaredsportscar.it'
srealizingyoucan'
thavethatcareeryounowwant.it'
thavethatchildyounowwant,oryoucan'
tgiveyourchildasibling.toomanythirtysomethingsandfortysomethingslookatthemselves,andatme,sittingacrosstheroom,andsayabouttheir20s,"
whatwasidoing?
whatwasithinking?
iwanttochangewhattwentysomethingsaredoingandthinking.
here'
sastoryabouthowthatcango.it'
sastoryaboutawomannamedemma.at25,emmacametomyofficebecauseshewas,inherwords,havinganidentitycrisis.shesaidshethoughtshemightliketoworkinartorentertainment,butshehadn'
tdecidedyet,soshe'
dspentthelastfewyearswaitingtablesinstead.becauseitwascheaper,shelivedwithaboyfriendwhodisplayedhistempermorethanhisambition.andashardasher20swere,herearlylifehadbeenevenharder.sheoftencriedinoursessions,butthenwouldcollectherselfbysaying,"
youcan'
tpickyourfamily,butyoucanpickyourfriends."
welloneday,emmacomesinandshehangsherheadinherlap,andshesobbedformostofthehour.she'
djustboughtanewaddressbook,andshe'
dspentthemorningfillinginhermanycontacts,butthenshe'
dbeenleftstaringatthatemptyblankthatcomesafterthewords"
incaseofemergency,pleasecall...."
shewasnearlyhystericalwhenshelookedatmeandsaid,"
who'
sgoingtobethereformeifigetinacarwreck?
who'
sgoingtotakecareofmeifihavecancer?
nowinthatmoment,ittookeverythingihadnottosay,"
iwill."
butwhatemmaneededwasn'
tsometherapistwhoreally,reallycared.emmaneededabetterlife,andiknewthiswasherchance.ihadlearnedtoomuchsinceifirstworkedwithalextojustsittherewhileemma'
sdefiningdecadewentparadingby.
sooverthenextweeksandmonths,itoldemmathreethingsthateverytwentysomething,maleorfemale,deservestohear.
first,itoldemmatoforgetabouthavinganidentitycrisisandgetsomeidentitycapital.bygetidentitycapital,imeandosomethingthataddsvaluetowhoyouare.dosomethingthat'
saninvestmentinwhoyoumightwanttobenext.ididn'
tknowthefutureofemma'
scareer,andnooneknowsthefutureofwork,butidoknowthis:
identitycapitalbegetsidentitycapital.sonowisthetimeforthatcross-countryjob,thatinternship,thatstartupyouwanttotry.i'
mnotdiscountingtwentysomethingexplorationhere,butiamdiscountingexplorationthat'
snotsupposedtocount,which,bytheway,isnotexploration.that'
sprocrastination.itoldemmatoexploreworkandmakeitcount.
second,itoldemmathattheurbantribeisoverrated.bestfriendsaregreatforgivingridestotheairport,buttwentysomethingswhohuddletogetherwithlike-mindedpeerslimitwhotheyknow,whattheyknow,howtheythink,howtheyspeak,andwheretheywork.thatnewpieceofcapital,thatnewpersontodatealmostalwayscomesfromoutsidetheinnercircle.newthingscomefromwhatarecalledourweakties,ourfriendsoffriendsoffriends.soyes,halfoftwentysomethingsareun-orunder-employed.buthalfaren'
t,andweaktiesarehowyougetyourselfintothatgroup.halfofnewjobsareneverposted,soreachingouttoyourneighbor'
sbossishowyougetthatun-postedjob.it'
snotcheating.it'
sthescienceofhowinformationspreads.
lastbutnotleast,emmabelievedthatyoucan'
tpickyourfamily,butyoucanpickyourfriends.nowthiswastrueforhergrowingup,butasatwentysomething,soonemmawouldpickherfamilywhenshepartneredwithsomeoneandcreatedafamilyofherow
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