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Andthentheysaid,"
Buthelooksgood."
(Laughter)
Hedoeslookgood,becausekidsneedstructure,andthetrickIplayinallofmyschoolappearancesisthatwhenIgetthroughwithmylittlehomilytothekids,Itheninvitethemtoaskquestions,andwhentheyraisetheirhands,Isay,"
Comeup,"
andImakethemcomeupandstandinfrontofme.Imakethemstandatattentionlikeasoldier.Putyourarmsstraightdownatyourside,lookup,openyoureyes,starestraightahead,andspeakoutyourquestionloudlysoeverybodycanhear.Noslouching,nopantshangingdown,noneofthatstuff.(Laughter)Andthisyoungman,hisnameis--hislastnameCruz--helovedit.That'
salloverhisFacebookpageandit'
sgoneviral.(Laughter)SopeoplethinkI'
mbeingunkindtothiskid.No,we'
rehavingalittlefun.Andthethingaboutit,I'
vedonethisforyears,theyoungertheyare,themorefunitis.
WhenIgetsix-andseven-year-oldsinagroup,Ihavetofigureouthowtokeepthemquiet.Youknowthatthey'
llalwaysstartyakking.AndsoIplayalittlegamewiththembeforeImakethemstandatattention.
Isay,"
Nowlisten.Inthearmy,whenwewantyoutopayattention,wehaveacommand.It'
scalled'
atease.'
Itmeanseverybodybequietandpayattention.Listenup.Doyouunderstand?
Uh-huh,uh-huh,uh-huh."
Let'
spractice.Everybodystartchatting."
AndIletthemgoforabout10seconds,thenIgo,"
Atease!
Huh!
Yes,General.Yes,General."
Tryitwithyourkids.Seeifitworks.(Laughter)Idon'
tthinkso.
Butanyway,it'
sagameIplay,anditcomesobviouslyfrommymilitaryexperience.Becauseforthemajorityofmyadultlife,Iworkedwithyoungkids,teenagerswithguns,Icallthem.Andwewouldbringthemintothearmy,andthefirstthingwewoulddoistoputtheminanenvironmentofstructure,puttheminranks,makethemallwearthesameclothes,cutalltheirhairoffsotheylookalike,makesurethattheyarestandinginranks.Weteachthemhowtogorightface,leftface,sotheycanobeyinstructionsandknowtheconsequencesofnotobeyinginstructions.Itgivesthemstructure.Andthenweintroducethemtosomebodywhotheycometohateimmediately,thedrillsergeant.Andtheyhatehim.Andthedrillsergeantstartsscreamingatthem,andtellingthemtodoallkindsofawfulthings.Butthenthemostamazingthinghappensovertime.Oncethatstructureisdeveloped,oncetheyunderstandthereasonforsomething,oncetheyunderstand,"
Mamaain'
there,son.I'
myourworstnightmare.I'
myourdaddyandyourmommy.Andthat'
sjustthewayitis.Yougotthat,son?
Yeah,andthenwhenIaskyouaquestion,thereareonlythreepossibleanswers:
yes,sir;
no,sir;
andnoexcuse,sir.Don'
tstarttellingmewhyyoudidn'
tdosomething.It'
syes,sir;
noexcuse,sir."
Youdidn'
tshave."
Butsir—"
No,don'
ttellmehowoftenyouscrapedyourfacethismorning.I'
mtellingyouyoudidn'
Noexcuse,sir."
Attaboy,you'
relearningfast."
Butyou'
dbeamazedatwhatyoucandowiththemonceyouputtheminthatstructure.In18weeks,theyhaveaskill.Theyaremature.Andyouknowwhat,theycometoadmirethedrillsergeantandtheyneverforgetthedrillsergeant.Theycometorespecthim.Andsoweneedmoreofthiskindofstructureandrespectinthelivesofourchildren.
Ispendalotoftimewithyouthgroups,andIsaytopeople,"
Whendoestheeducationprocessbegin?
We'
realwaystalkingabout,"
sfixtheschools.Let'
sdomoreforourteachers.Let'
sputmorecomputersinourschools.Let'
sgetitallonline."
Thatisn'
tthewholeanswer.It'
spartoftheanswer.Buttherealanswerbeginswithbringingachildtotheschoolwithstructureinthatchild'
sheartandsoultobeginwith.
Whendoesthelearningprocessbegin?
Doesitbegininfirstgrade?
No,no,itbeginsthefirsttimeachildinamother'
sarmslooksupatthemotherandsays,"
Oh,thismustbemymother.She'
stheonewhofeedsme.Ohyeah,whenIdon'
tfeelsogooddownthere,shetakescareofme.It'
sherlanguageIwilllearn."
Andatthatmomenttheyshutoutalltheotherlanguagesthattheycouldbelearningatthatage,butbythreemonths,that'
sher.Andifthepersondoingit,whetherit'
sthemotherorgrandmother,whoever'
sdoingit,thatiswhentheeducationprocessbegins.That'
swhenlanguagebegins.That'
swhenlovebegins.That'
swhenstructurebegins.That'
swhenyoustarttoimprintonthechildthat"
youarespecial,youaredifferentfromeveryotherchildintheworld.Andwe'
regoingtoreadtoyou."
Achildwhohasnotbeenreadtoisindangerwhenthatchildgetstoschool.Achildwhodoesn'
tknowhisorhercolorsordoesn'
tknowhowtotelltime,doesn'
tknowhowtotieshoes,doesn'
tknowhowtodothosethings,anddoesn'
tknowhowtodosomethingthatgoesbyawordthatwasdrilledintomeasakid:
mind.Mindyourmanners!
Mindyouradults!
Mindwhatyou'
resaying!
Thisisthewaychildrenareraisedproperly.AndIwatchedmyownyounggrandchildrennowcomealongandthey'
re,muchtothedistressofmychildren,theyareactingjustlikewedid.Youknow?
Youimprintthem.
Andthat'
swhatyouhavetodotopreparechildrenforeducationandforschool.AndI'
mworkingatalltheenergyIhavetosortofcommunicatethismessagethatweneedpreschool,weneedHeadStart,weneedprenatalcare.Theeducationprocessbeginsevenbeforethechildisborn,andifyoudon'
tdothat,you'
regoingtohavedifficulty.Andwearehavingdifficultiesinsomanyofourcommunitiesandsomanyofourschoolswherekidsarecomingtofirstgradeandtheireyesareblazing,they'
vegottheirlittleknapsackonandthey'
rereadytogo,andthentheyrealizethey'
renotliketheotherfirstgraderswhoknowbooks,havebeenreadto,candotheiralphabet.Andbythethirdgrade,thekidswhodidn'
thavethatstructureandmindinginthebeginningstarttorealizethey'
rebehind,andwhatdotheydo?
Theyactitout.Theyactitout,andthey'
reontheirwaytojailorthey'
reontheirwaytobeingdropouts.It'
spredictable.Ifyou'
renotattherightreadinglevelatthirdgrade,youareacandidateforjailatage18,andwehavethehighestincarcerationratebecausewe'
renotgettingourkidstheproperstartinlife.
Thelastchapterinmybookiscalled"
TheGiftofaGoodStart."
Thegiftofagoodstart.Everychildoughttohaveagoodstartinlife.
Iwasprivilegedtohavethatkindofgoodstart.Iwasnotagreatstudent.IwasapublicschoolkidinNewYorkCity,andIdidn'
tdowellatall.IhavemyentireNewYorkCityBoardofEducationtranscriptfromkindergartenthroughcollege.IwanteditwhenIwaswritingmyfirstbook.Iwantedtoseeifmymemorywascorrect,and,myGod,itwas.(Laughter)StraightCeverywhere.AndIfinallybouncedthroughhighschool,gotintotheCityCollegeofNewYorkwitha78.3average,whichIshouldn'
thavebeenallowedinwith,andthenIstartedoutinengineering,andthatonlylastedsixmonths.(Laughter)AndthenIwentintogeology,"
rocksforjocks."
Thisiseasy.AndthenIfoundROTC.IfoundsomethingthatIdidwellandsomethingthatIloveddoing,andIfoundagroupofyoungsterslikemewhofeltthesameway.AndsomywholelifethenwasdedicatedtoROTCandthemilitary.AndIsaytoyoungkidseverywhere,asyou'
regrowingupandasthisstructureisbeingdevelopedinsideofyou,alwaysbelookingforthatwhichyoudowellandthatwhichyoulovedoing,andwhenyoufindthosetwothingstogether,man,yougotit.That'
swhat'
sgoingon.Andthat'
swhatIfound.
NowtheauthoritiesatCCNYweregettingtiredofmebeingthere.I'
dbeentherefourandahalfgoingonfiveyears,andmygradeswerenotdoingparticularlywell,andIwasinoccasionaldifficultieswiththeadministration.Andsotheysaid,"
ButhedoessowellinROTC.Look,hegetsstraightA'
sinthatbutnotinanythingelse."
Andsotheysaid,"
Look,let'
stakehisROTCgradesandrollthemintohisoverallGPAandseewhathappens."
Andtheydid,anditbroughtmeupto2.0.(Laughter)Yep.(Laughter)(Applause)Theysaid,"
It'
sgoodenoughforgovernmentwork.Givehimtothearmy.We'
llneverseehimagain.We'
llneverseehimagain."
Sotheyshippedmeofftothearmy,andloandbehold,manyyearslater,I'
mconsideredoneofthegreatestsonstheCityCollegeofNewYorkhaseverhad.(Laughter)So,Itellyoungpeopleeverywhere,itain'
twhereyoustartinlife,it'
swhatyoud
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