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restraintandhumility,"

hesaid."

Howdoyoukeepyourcoolwhen

somebodyisattackingyousoviciously?

"

It'

seasy,"

theskycapanswered."

He'

sgoingtoDenver,buthisbags

aregoingtoDetroit."

ThatiscertainlyONEwayofmanagingattitudes,buthereisamore

constructiveapproach.

HaveyouheardoftheA-B-Cmethodofmanagingyourattitude?

It'

s

simpleandeffective.

A"

standsforthe"

ActivatingEvent."

Let'

ssayyougetstuckin

traffic.Thetrafficjamistheactivatingevent.

B"

standsforyour"

BeliefSystem."

Youbelievethattrafficisonly

gettingworseandyou'

llhavemoreandmoredayslikethisahead.

C"

ConsequenceoftheEvent."

Youbecomeangry.You

wanttohonkyourhorn.Yourstomachistiedinknotsandyoubang

thedashboardwithyourfist.

Theproblemis...mostpeoplejumpdirectlyfrom"

to"

C."

Theyget

stuckintrafficandbecomeangry.Theythinkthetrafficjammade

themupset.Theydon'

trealizethattheydidn'

tHAVEtogetangry.

Theyskippedanimportantstep!

Let'

stryitagain:

-yougetstuckintraffic.

-youbelievethatyouweregivensomeunexpectedandextratime

tospendinsolitude,tolistentoagreattapeortoplanyourday.

-theconsequenceisthatyoufeelgratitudeforthegiftof

time.

Ihaveafriendwhoisfondofsaying,"

Atrafficjamhasnopowerto

makeusangry.Itjuststopsourcar."

Heisawarethatbetweenthe

activatingeventandtheconsequenceissomethingthatwecontrol:

ourbeliefsaboutwhatishappening.

Thenexttimeyouhaveaproblem--athomeoratwork,bigor

small--decidetomanageyourattitudetowardit.PracticetheA-B-C

method.Youprobablycan'

tchange"

A,"

theactivatingevent.Buttry

changing"

B,"

yourbeliefsabouttheproblem.Whenyouchangeyour

beliefs,youalsochange"

C,"

theconsequencesofthesituation.

sassimpleasA-B-C.Manageyourbeliefs,andyou'

llmanagetobe

alothappier!

12、thewomaninthemirror

WhenIwas11,IfoundoutIhadabraintumor（脑肿瘤）.Ihadsurgerytoremoveit,butthesizeandlocationofthetumorcausedmyopticnervetoatrophy.Forthreeyearsafterward,Ihadpartialsight,butmyophthalmologisttoldmethateventuallyIwouldgoblind.Attheendofmy14thyear,doctorspronouncedmelegallyblindandsaidtherewasnothingthatcouldbedone.Ihada5percentchanceofsurvivingthetumor,andIdid,butsomehowIcouldneverdealwiththefactthatIwasgoingblind.Itriedtobehaveasifeverythingwerejustfine.Whenithappened,Iwasdevastated.

MydadleftuswhenIwas5,andItookthatreallyhard.Becauseofthat,andbecauseIwasblindontopofit,mygreatestfearwasthatnoonewasevergoingtoloveme,thatIwouldnevergetmarriedandhavekidsandafulllife.Iwasafraidofbeingalone,andIguessthatiswhatIthoughtblindnessmeant.

Tenyearslater,onNov.16oflastyear,Iwascookingdinnerandleanedovertokissmyguidedog,Ami.Ilostmybalanceandhitmyheadonthecornerofmycoffeetableandthenonthefloor.Itwasn'

tunusual.Whenyouareblind,youhityourselfallthetime.Igotup,finishedmakingdinnerandwenttobed.

WhenIwokeup,Icouldsee.Lightwascomingthroughmywindow,andthecurtainsweredrawn.Ofcourse,Iwasshocked,butnotscared,notlikewhenIlostmysight.Thereisabigmirrorinmybedroom,butIdidn'

tlookatmyselfrightaway.Iwantedtowashmyhairandputonmakeupfirst.Idonotlookgoodinthemorning,andIdidn'

twanttobefrightened.AsIwasshowering,Icaughtmyreflection.Andjustthatleftmespeechless,really.

ThelasttimeIsawmyself,Ihadshorthair,apalecomplexion（肤色）andfeaturesthatdidn'

tshowbecauseIhadsuchlighteyebrowsandeyelashes.Ilookedawful,likeateenagegirl,Isuppose.Now,allofasudden,Irealizedthatitwastruewhatpeopletoldme,thatIwasanattractivewoman.WhenIstoodinfrontofthemirror,Ireachedtotouchmyface.ThatiswhatIhadbeendoingfor10years--itwashowIunderstood--soitwasanaturalimpulse.ItwasnotuntilIsawmyselfthatIrealizedhowmuchmymemoryhadfadedofthingsIoncecouldsee.ItwasaboutfourhoursbeforeItoldanyone.IstayedwithAmi.Welookedateachotherandplayedoutsideintheyard.

Ijustwantedtobealone,andtakeitin（让...进入;

改小;

接受;

改短）.Itwassomuch.

ThestrangethingwasthatIknewitwasgoingtohappen.Aboutaweekbefore,IwaswalkingAmiandsuddenlysawbluedotsinfrontofmylefteye,theoneIwouldregainmysightin.ItoldmymumbecauseIfounditfunny;

bluehadbeenmyfavoritecolorandwastheeasiestcolorformetoseewhenIhadpartialsight.Itookitasasign.

Peopledon'

ttreatmedifferentlynow.Iwasalwayscompletelyindependent.IlivedinAuckland,NewZealand,inmyownflatwithmydog.Iwouldhavepartiesandgoclubbing.Iwouldlistentothebeatofthemusicandgowithitandhopeforthebest.Whenyourfriendsgrabyouandpointyouintheotherdirectionbecausetheyareactuallyoverthere,thatiswhenyourememberyou'

reblind.

Ialsolovedmovies.Goingtothemoviesblindwaslikesomeonetellingyouareallygoodstorywithgreatsoundeffects,andyoumakeupalltheimagesinyourhead.Ihaven'

tbeenbacksinceIregainedmysight.ButI'

vebeenabletoseemyfavoritesoap,'

'

ShortlandStreet.'

AndmyfriendstookoutmagazinesandpointedoutPamelaLeeAndersonandBradPitt.ThebiggestsurprisewasBradPitt.Ijustthought,Whatiseveryonegoingonabout?

Thebestwasseeingmyboyfriend.Herodetheferryover,andIknewhimthemomentIsawhim.HewasassexyasIhadimagined.

Iamnotsurprisedthatthingsareprettymuchthesameinmylife.Ididn'

texpectanythingmorethanwhatIhavenow.Iworkedveryhardtosurroundmyselfwithgenuinepeopleandtocreateanormallifeformyself.Iamstillthesameperson.Itjustmeansthatphysically,perhaps,Icansharemoreandputthetwotogether:

thefeelingsIhad,withsight.

ThesamedoctorwhotoldmeIwouldneverseeagaintoldmeIhadregained80percentofthevisioninmylefteye.TobeabletolookhimintheeyeandtellhimIcouldseeagain--honestly,thatfeltprettydamngood.Heranallthetestsandmademereadtheeyechart,buthehasnoexplanation.Hesaidhimself,andstillsays,thatoncetheopticnerveisdamaged,itcannotregenerate.

Idon'

tthinktheknockontheheadhadanythingtodowithit.Ifotherswanttobelievethatishowithappened,thatisfine.ButIconsiderthisamiracle.Thereisnootherwaytodescribeit.Somethingsjustcannotbeexplained.Ofcourse,somepeopleareskeptical.Forme,itisprecious.Itrynottothinkaboutthepossibilityofgoingblindagain.Butmyrecoverywouldbenoless（简直）amiracleevenifIlostmysighttomorrow.

13、thesecretofhappiness

Oncetherelivedakingofgreatstrengthandwealth.Yethewasnothappy.Hetoldhisservantstofindhimthingstomakehimhappy,buteachcamebacksaying,"

Notingintheworldcanmatchthewonderfulthingsyouhavealready."

Theninthatland,therelivedapoormanwithapatchoveroneeyeandacrutchtohelphimwalk.Althoughhehadlittle,hewasalwayshappy.Whenthekingheardofthis,heaskedthemantoteachhimhissecret.

Ineverpush."

themanreplied,"

andIneverrush.Mostofall,Ineverwishfortoomuch."

Thenhesmiledandwasgone.

Ifyouwouldmakeamanhappy,donotaddtohispossessionsbutsubtractfromhisdesires.

Translation:

从前有一位国王，很有权力和财富，然而他并不快乐。

他告诉仆人去找可以使他快乐的东西，但是每个回来的人都说：

“世界上没有什么比得上你已经拥有的极好的东西。

”当时那个国家住着一个穷人，他一个眼睛戴着眼罩并靠拐杖走路。

虽然他拥有的很少，但是他总是很快乐。

当国王听说这件事的时候，他要求这个人教他快乐的秘决。

“我从来不强迫，”这个人答道，“而且我从不匆忙。

最重要的是，我从不希望得到太多。

”然后，他笑着离开了。

如果你想使一个人快乐，不要增加他的财产，而是要减少他的欲望

14、theDaffodilprinciple

Severaltimesmydaughterhadtelephonedtosay,"

Mother,youmustcometoseethedaffodilsbeforetheyareover."

Iwantedtogo,butitwasatwo-hourdrivefromLagunatoLakeArrowhead"

IwillcomenextTuesday"

Ipromisedalittlereluctantlyonherthirdcall.

NextTuesdaydawnedcoldandrainy.Still,Ihadpromised,andreluctantlyIdrovethere.WhenIfinallywalkedintoCarolyn'

shouseIwaswelcomedbythejoyfulsoundsofhappychildren.Idelightedlyhuggedandgreetedmygrandchildren.

Forgetthedaffodils,Carolyn!

Theroadisinvisibleinthesecloudsandfog,andthereisnothingintheworldexceptyouandthesechildrenthatIwanttoseebadlyenoughtodriveanotherinch!

Mydaughtersmiledcalmlyandsaid,"

Wedriveinthisallthetime,Mother."

"

Well,youwon'

tgetmebackontheroaduntilitclears,andthenI'

mheadingforhome!

Iassuredher.

Butfirstwe'

regoingtoseethedaffodils.It'

sjustafewblocks,"

Carolynsaid."

I'

lldrive.I'

musedtothis."

Carolyn,"

Isaidsternly,"

Pleaseturnaround."

sallright,Mother,Ipromise.Youwillneverforgiveyourselfifyoumissthisexperience."

Afterabouttwentyminutes,weturnedontoasmallgravelroadandIsawasmallchurch.Onthefarsideofthechurch,Isawahandletteredsignwithanarrowthat