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reright,"
shetoldhim."
Itmustseemdumbformetoassumeyoudon'
tknowthebestwaythroughthecity."
Takenaback,thedriverflashedhisrideraconfusedlookintherear-viewmirror,turneddownthestreetshewantedandgothertothetrainontime."
Hedidn'
tsayanotherwordtherestoftheride,"
shesaid,"
untilIgotoutandpaidhim.Thenhethankedme."
Whenyouencounterpeoplelikethiscabdriver,there'
sanirresistibleurgetodiginyourheels.Thiscanleadtoprolongedarguments,souredfriendships,lostcareeropportunitiesandbrokenmarriages.Asaclinicalpsychiatrist,I'
vediscoveredonesimplebutextremelyunlikelyprinciplethatcanpreventvirtuallyanyconflictorotherdifficultsituationfrombecomingarecipefordisaster.
Thekeyistoputyourselfintheotherperson'
sshoesandlookforthetruthinwhatthatpersonissaying.Findawaytoagree.Theresultmaysurpriseyou.
SulkersSteve'
s14-year-oldson,Adam,hadbeenirritableforseveraldays.WhenSteveaskedwhy,Adamsnapped,"
Nothing'
swrong!
Leavemealone!
andstalkedofftohisroom.
Weallknowpeoplelikethis.Whenthere'
sproblem,theymaysulk(生闷气)oractangryandrefusetotalk.
Sowhat'
sthesolution?
First,SteveneedstoaskhimselfwhyAdamwon'
ttalk.Maybetheboyisworriedaboutsomethingthathappenedatschool.OrhemightbeangryathisdadbutafraidtobringitupbecauseStevegetsdefensivewheneverheiscriticized.Stevecanpursuethesepossibilitiesthenexttimetheytalkbysaying,"
Inoticedyou'
reupset,andIthinkitwouldhelptogettheproblemoutintheopen.ItmaybehardbecauseIhaven'
talwayslistenedvery•58•
well.Ifso,IfeelbadbecauseIloveyouanddon'
twanttoletyoudown."
IfAdamstillrefusestotalk,Stevecantakeadifferenttack:
"
mconcernedaboutwhat'
sgoingonwithyou,butwecantalkthingsoverlater,whenyou'
remoreinthemood."
Thisstrategyallowsbothsidestowin:
Stevedoesn'
thavetocompromiseontheprinciplethatultimatelytheproblemneedstobetalkedoutandresolved.Adamsavesfacebybeingallowedtowithdrawforawhile.
Noisycritics.Recently,IwascounsellingabusinessmannamedFrankwholendstobeoverbearing(专横的)whenhe'
supset.FranktoldmethatIwastooabsent-mindedwithmoneyandthatheshouldn'
thavetopayateachofoursessions.Hewantedtobebilledmonthly.
IfeltannoyedbecauseitseemedFrankalwayshadtohavethingshisway.IexplainedthatIhadtriedmonthlybilling,butithadn'
tworkedbecausesomepatientsdidn'
tpay.Frankarguedthathehadimpeccable(无可挑剔的)creditandknewmuchmoreaboutcreditandbillingthanIdid.
SuddenlyIrealizedIwasmissingFrank'
spoint."
Youareright,"
Isaid."
I'
mbeingdefensive.Weshouldfocusontheproblemsinyourlifeandnotworrysomuchaboutmoney."
Frankimmediatelysoftenedandbegantalkingaboutwhatwasreallybotheringhim,whichweresomepersonalproblems.Thenexttimewemet,hehandedmeacheckfor20sessionsinadvance!
Therearetimes,ofcourse,whenpeopleareunreasonablyabusiveandyoumayneedtojustwalkawayfromthesituation.Butiftheproblemisonethatyouwantsolved,it'
simportanttoallowtheotherpersontokeepsomeself-esteem.There'
snearlyalwaysagrainoftruthintheotherperson'
spointofview.Ifyouacknowledgethis,heorshewillbelessdefensiveandmorelikelytolistentoyou.
Complainers.Bradisa32-year-oldDetroitchiropractor(按摩师)whorecentlydescribedhisfrustrationwithapatientofhis:
IaskMr.Barry,'
Howareyoudoing?
'
andhedumpsouthiswholelifestory-hisfamilyproblemsandhisfinancialdifficulties.Igivehimadvice,butheignoreseverythingItellhim."
Bradneedstorecognizethathabitualcomplainersusuallydon'
twantadvice.Theyjustwantsomeonetolistenandunderstand.SoBradmightsimplysay:
soundslikearoughweek,It'
snofuntohaveunpaidbills,peoplenaggingyou,andthispainbesides."
Thecomplainerwillusuallyrunoutofgasandstopcomplaining.Thesecretisnottogiveadvice.Justagreeingandvalidatingaperson'
spointofviewwillmakethatpersonfeelbetter.
Demandingfriends.Difficultpeoplearen'
talways-,angryorjustcomplaining.Sometimestheyaredifficultbecauseofthedemandstheyplaceuponus.Maybeafriendputsyouonthespotwitharequesttorunanerrandforhimwhilehe'
soutoftown.Ifyouhaveacrowdedschedule,youmayagreebutendupangryandresentful.Orifyousaynointhewrongway,yourfriendmayfeelhurtandunhappy.Theproblemisthat,caughtoffguard,youdon'
tknowhowtodealwiththesituationinawaythatavoidsbadfeelings.
OnemethodI'
vefoundhelpfulis"
punting"
.You'
repuntingwhenyoutellthepersonyouneedtothinkabouttherequestandthatyou'
llgetbackaboutit.Sayacolleaguecallsandpressuresmetogivealectureathisuniversity.I'
velearnedtosay,"
mflatteredthatyouthoughtofme.Letmecheckmyschedule,andI'
llcallyouback."
ThisgivesmetimetodealwithanyfeelingsofguiltifIhavetosayno.SupposeIdecideitisbettertodecline;
puntingallowmetoplanwhatIwillsaywhenIcallback,"
Iappreciatebeingasked,"
Imightindicate,"
butIfindI'
mover-committedrightnow.However,Ihopeyou'
llthinkofmeinthefuture."
Respondingtodifficultpeoplewithpatienceandempathycanbetough,especiallywhenyoufeelupset.Butthemomentyougiveupyourneedtocontrolorberight,theotherpersonwillbeginrelaxingandstartlisteningtoyou.TheGreekphilosopherEpictetusunderstoodthiswhenhesaidnearly2,000yearsago,"
Ifsomeonecriticizesyou,agreeatonce.Mentionthatifonlytheotherpersonknewyouwell,therewouldbemoretocriticizethanthat!
Realcommunicationresultsfromaspiritofrespectforyourselfandfortheotherperson.Thebenefitscanbeamazing.
1.Theprinciplethewriterhasdiscoveredtostopanyconflictfromgoingworseistofindawaytoagree.
2.Thetaxidriverthankedthebusinesswomanbecauseshewasverypolitetohim.
3.Difficultpeoplementionedinthepassageincludethosewhogiveoccasionalcomplaints.
4.Onewaytodealwiththepersonwhoisunreasonablyabusiveistowalkawayfromthesituation.
5.IfMr.BarryhadfollowedBrad'
sadvice,hewouldhavesolvedallhispersonalproblems.
6.Whathabitualcomplainersneedisagoodlistener.
7.Itwillendupinunhappinesswhetheryouhavesatisfiedyourfriend'
srequestornot.
8.Youwillberewardedwitharealcommunicationifyou______forothers.
9.Adifficultpersoncanbecomearelaxingandgoodconversationalpartnerifyou______
yourcontrol.
10.Accordingtotheauthor,oneeffectivewaytodealwithademandingfriendis______.
答案:
1.Y2.N3.N4.Y5.NG6.Y7.N8.showrespect9.giveup10.punting
2014年英语六级阅读练习及答案(34)
Agrowingworldpopulationandthediscoveriesofsciencemay11thispatternofdistributioninthefuture.Asmenslowlylearntomasterdiseases,controlfloods,preventfamines,andstopwars,fewerpeopledieeveryyear;
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2014年英语六级阅读练习及答案(35)
Theprocessofperceivingothersisrarelytranslated(toourselvesorothers)intocold,objectiveterms."
Shewas5feet8inchestall,hadfairhair,andworeacoloredskirt."
Moreoften,wetrytogetinsidetheotherpersontopinpoint(强调)hisorherattitudes,emotions,motivations,abilities,ideas,andcharacters.Furthermore,wesometimesbehaveasifwecanaccomplishthisdifficultjobveryquickly—perhapswithatwo-secondglance.
Wetrytoobtaininformationaboutothersinmanyways.Bergersuggestsseveralmethodsforreducinguncertaintiesaboutothers;
whoareknowntoyousoyoucancomparetheobserved
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