Ted演讲稿脆弱的力量Word下载.docx
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andI'
mgoingtocallyouaresearcher,Ithink,?
butI'
mafraidifIcallyouaresearcher,noonewillcome,?
becausethey'
llthinkyou'
reboringandirrelevant."
(Laughter)AndIwaslike,"
Okay."
ButthethingIlikedaboutyourtalk?
isyou'
reastoryteller.?
SoIthinkwhatI'
lldoisjustcallyouastoryteller."
Andofcourse,theacademic,insecurepartofme?
waslike,"
You'
regoingtocallmeawhat?
mgoingtocallyouastoryteller."
AndIwaslike,"
Whynotmagicpixie?
(Laughter)?
Iwaslike,"
Letmethinkaboutthisforasecond."
Itriedtocalldeeponmycourage.?
AndIthought,youknow,Iamastoryteller.?
maqualitativeresearcher.?
Icollectstories;
that'
swhatIdo.?
Andmaybestoriesarejustdatawithasoul.?
AndmaybeI'
mjustastoryteller.?
AndsoIsaid,"
Youknowwhat?
Whydon'
tyoujustsayI'
maresearcher-storyteller."
Andshewent,"
Haha.There'
snosuchthing."
SoI'
maresearcher-storyteller,?
mgoingtotalktoyoutoday--?
we'
retalkingaboutexpandingperception--?
andsoIwanttotalktoyouandtellsomestories?
aboutapieceofmyresearch?
thatfundamentallyexpandedmyperception?
andreallyactuallychangedthewaythatIliveandlove?
andworkandparent.
Andthisiswheremystorystarts.?
WhenIwasayoungresearcher,doctoralstudent,?
myfirstyearIhadaresearchprofessor?
whosaidtous,?
Here'
sthething,?
ifyoucannotmeasureit,itdoesnotexist."
AndIthoughthewasjustsweet-talkingme.?
Really?
andhewaslike,"
Absolutely."
Andsoyouhavetounderstand?
thatIhaveabachelor'
sinsocialwork,amaster'
sinsocialwork,?
andIwasgettingmyPh.D.insocialwork,?
somyentireacademiccareer?
wassurroundedbypeople?
whokindofbelieved?
inthe"
life'
smessy,loveit."
AndI'
mmoreofthe,"
smessy,?
cleanitup,organizeit?
andputitintoabentobox."
AndsotothinkthatIhadfoundmyway,?
tofoundacareerthattakesme--?
really,oneofthebigsayingsinsocialwork?
is,"
Leanintothediscomfortofthework."
mlike,knockdiscomfortupsidethehead?
andmoveitoverandgetallA'
s.?
Thatwasmymantra.?
SoIwasveryexcitedaboutthis.?
AndsoIthought,youknowwhat,thisisthecareerforme,?
becauseIaminterestedinsomemessytopics.?
ButIwanttobeabletomakethemnotmessy.?
Iwanttounderstandthem.?
Iwanttohackintothesethings?
Iknowareimportant?
andlaythecodeoutforeveryonetosee.
SowhereIstartedwaswithconnection.?
Because,bythetimeyou'
reasocialworkerfor10years,?
whatyourealize?
isthatconnectioniswhywe'
rehere.?
It'
swhatgivespurposeandmeaningtoourlives.?
Thisiswhatit'
sallabout.?
Itdoesn'
tmatterwhetheryoutalktopeoplewhoworkinsocialjusticeandmentalhealthandabuseandneglect,?
whatweknowisthatconnection,?
theabilitytofeelconnected,is--?
neurobiologicallythat'
showwe'
rewired--?
it'
swhywe'
SoIthought,youknowwhat,I'
mgoingtostartwithconnection.?
Well,youknowthatsituation?
whereyougetanevaluationfromyourboss,?
andshetellsyou37thingsyoudoreallyawesome,?
andonething--an"
opportunityforgrowth?
Andallyoucanthinkaboutisthatopportunityforgrowth,right?
Well,apparentlythisisthewaymyworkwentaswell,?
because,whenyouaskpeopleaboutlove,?
theytellyouaboutheartbreak.?
Whenyouaskpeopleaboutbelonging,?
they'
lltellyoutheirmostexcruciatingexperiences?
ofbeingexcluded.?
Andwhenyouaskpeopleaboutconnection,?
thestoriestheytoldmewereaboutdisconnection.
Soveryquickly--reallyaboutsixweeksintothisresearch--?
Iranintothisunnamedthing?
thatabsolutelyunraveledconnection?
inawaythatIdidn'
tunderstandorhadneverseen.?
AndsoIpulledbackoutoftheresearch?
andthought,Ineedtofigureoutwhatthisis.?
Anditturnedouttobeshame.?
Andshameisreallyeasilyunderstood?
asthefearofdisconnection:
Istheresomethingaboutme?
that,ifotherpeopleknowitorseeit,?
thatIwon'
tbeworthyofconnection?
ThethingsIcantellyouaboutit:
suniversal;
weallhaveit.?
Theonlypeoplewhodon'
texperienceshame?
havenocapacityforhumanempathyorconnection.?
Noonewantstotalkaboutit,?
andthelessyoutalkaboutitthemoreyouhaveit.?
Whatunderpinnedthisshame,?
this"
mnotgoodenough,"
--?
whichweallknowthatfeeling:
mnotblankenough.I'
mnotthinenough,?
richenough,beautifulenough,smartenough,?
promotedenough."
Thethingthatunderpinnedthis?
wasexcruciatingvulnerability,?
thisideaof,?
inorderforconnectionto
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