英语演讲稿用肢体语言来塑造自己Word下载.docx
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英语演讲稿:
SoIwanttostartbyofferingyouafreeno-techlifehack,andallitrequiresofyouisthis:
thatyouchangeyourposturefortwominutes.ButbeforeIgiveitaway,Iwanttoaskyoutorightnowdoalittleauditofyourbodyandwhatyou'
redoingwithyourbody.Sohowmanyofyouaresortofmakingyourselvessmaller?
Maybeyou'
rehunching,crossingyourlegs,maybewrappingyourankles.Sometimesweholdontoourarmslikethis.Sometimeswespreadout.(Laughter)Iseeyou.(Laughter)SoIwantyoutopayattentiontowhatyou'
redoingrightnow.We'
regoingtocomebacktothatinafewminutes,andI'
mhopingthatifyoulearntotweakthisalittlebit,itcouldsignificantlychangethewayyourlifeunfolds.
So,we'
rereallyfascinatedwithbodylanguage,andwe'
reparticularlyinterestedinotherpeople'
sbodylanguage.Youknow,we'
reinterestedin,like,youknow—(Laughter)—anawkwardinteraction,orasmile,oracontemptuousglance,ormaybeaveryawkwardwink,ormaybeevensomethinglikeahandshake.
Narrator:
HeretheyarearrivingatNumber10,andlookatthisluckypolicemangetstoshakehandswiththePresidentoftheUnitedStates.Oh,andherecomesthePrimeMinisterofthe—?
No.(Laughter)(Applause)(Laughter)(Applause)
AmyCuddy:
Soahandshake,orthelackofahandshake,canhaveustalkingforweeksandweeksandweeks.EventheBBCandTheNewYorkTimes.Soobviouslywhenwethinkaboutnonverbalbehavior,orbodylanguage--butwecallitnonverbalsassocialscientists--it'
slanguage,sowethinkaboutcommunication.Whenwethinkaboutcommunication,wethinkaboutinteractions.Sowhatisyourbodylanguagecommunicatingtome?
What'
sminecommunicatingtoyou?
Andthere'
salotofreasontobelievethatthisisavalidwaytolookatthis.Sosocialscientistshavespentalotoftimelookingattheeffectsofourbodylanguage,orotherpeople'
sbodylanguage,onjudgments.Andwemakesweepingjudgmentsandinferencesfrombodylanguage.Andthosejudgmentscanpredictreallymeaningfullifeoutcomeslikewhowehireorpromote,whoweaskoutonadate.Forexample,NaliniAmbady,aresearcheratTuftsUniversity,showsthatwhenpeoplewatch30-secondsoundlessclipsofrealphysician-patientinteractions,theirjudgmentsofthephysician'
snicenesspredictwhetherornotthatphysicianwillbesued.Soitdoesn'
thavetodosomuchwithwhetherornotthatphysicianwasincompetent,butdowelikethatpersonandhowtheyinteracted?
Evenmoredramatic,AlexTodorovatPrincetonhasshownusthatjudgmentsofpoliticalcandidates'
facesinjustonesecondpredict70percentofU.S.Senateandgubernatorialraceoutcomes,andeven,let'
sgodigital,emoticonsusedwellinonlinenegotiationscanleadtoyouclaimmorevaluefromthatnegotiation.Ifyouusethempoorly,badidea.Right?
Sowhenwethinkofnonverbals,wethinkofhowwejudgeothers,howtheyjudgeusandwhattheoutcomesare.Wetendtoforget,though,theotheraudiencethat'
sinfluencedbyournonverbals,andthat'
sourselves.
Wearealsoinfluencedbyournonverbals,ourthoughtsandourfeelingsandourphysiology.SowhatnonverbalsamItalkingabout?
I'
masocialpsychologist.Istudyprejudice,andIteachatacompetitivebusinessschool,soitwasinevitablethatIwouldbecomeinterestedinpowerdynamics.Ibecameespeciallyinterestedinnonverbalexpressionsofpoweranddominance.
Andwhatarenonverbalexpressionsofpoweranddominance?
Well,thisiswhattheyare.Sointheanimalkingdom,theyareaboutexpanding.Soyoumakeyourselfbig,youstretchout,youtakeupspace,you'
rebasicallyopeningup.It'
saboutopeningup.Andthisistrueacrosstheanimalkingdom.It'
snotjustlimitedtoprimates.Andhumansdothesamething.(Laughter)Sotheydothisbothwhentheyhavepowersortofchronically,andalsowhenthey'
refeelingpowerfulinthemoment.Andthisoneisespeciallyinterestingbecauseitreallyshowsushowuniversalandoldtheseexpressionsofpowerare.Thisexpression,whichisknownaspride,JessicaTracyhasstudied.Sheshowsthatpeoplewhoarebornwithsightandpeoplewhoarecongenitallyblinddothiswhentheywinataphysicalcompetition.Sowhentheycrossthefinishlineandthey'
vewon,itdoesn'
tmatterifthey'
veneverseenanyonedoit.Theydothis.SothearmsupintheV,thechinisslightlylifted.Whatdowedowhenwefeelpowerless?
Wedoexactlytheopposite.Wecloseup.Wewrapourselvesup.Wemakeourselvessmall.Wedon'
twanttobumpintothepersonnexttous.Soagain,bothanimalsandhumansdothesamething.Andthisiswhathappenswhenyouputtogetherhighandlowpower.Sowhatwetendtodowhenitcomestopoweristhatwecomplement
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