TED一篇观后感:Yourbodylanguageshapeswhoyouare肢体语言塑造人格.docx
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TED一篇观后感:Yourbodylanguageshapeswhoyouare肢体语言塑造人格.docx
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Yourbodylanguageshapeswhoyouare
Yourbodylanguageshapeswhoyouare.Wealwaysmakesweeping
judgmentsandinferencesfrombodylanguage.Andthosejudgmentscan
predictreallymeaningfullifeoutcomeslikewhowehireorpromote,who
weaskoutonadate.AmyCuddy,thelecturer,tellsusalotabout
functionsofbodylanguagebringtous.
Itistrueacrosstheanimalkingdomthatwhenanimalsmake
themselvesbig,theystretchout,takeupspace,theyarebasicallyopening
upandexpanding.It'snotjustlimitedtoprimates,andhumansdothe
samething.AmyCuddyexplainsthisphenomenonphysiologicallyby
cortisol,whichisthestresshormone.Whenwefeelpowerless,wedo
exactlytheopposite.Wecloseup,wrapourselvesup,andmakeourselves
small.allwehavedonebecauseoftestosterone,whichisthedominance
hormone.
Shealsostressesthatpowerposingforafewminutesreallychange
yourlifeinmeaningfulways.Presentingaexampleofherchildhood
experience,shetellsusthatyourbodyshapeswhoyouare.Whatyou
thinkdoesn'tmeanwhatyoubehave,butsomeoneelse'sopinionofyou
preciselydependsonyourperformanceratherthanwhatyouhavein
mind.Thatiswhatthelecturetalksabout.
MyfavoriteTVseriesis
crimes,themainideawhichtheshowexpressestousisthatyourbodylanguagemaybetrayyoursoul.Onceone'swordsarenotmatchedby
deeds,hisbodylanguagetellthetruthinstead.Iknowaboutbody
languageonlystayatthislevel:
yourbodylanguagereflectswhoyouare.
ThroughAmyCuddy'sspeech,Iunderstandmuchdeeper:
yourbody
languagenotonlyreflectswhoyouare,butalsoshapeswhoyouare.
Sincewehavefoundthebodylanguagecanaccuratelyreflectourinner
emotioncondition,wecanalsomakethebodylanguageapositivemeans,
whichmotivatesourpsychologicalstatustobebetter.Peoplefeeltense
whenCortisollevelishigh,sotheymaycurlupbodyordodge
themselvesasphysicalreaction.Onthecontrast,ifwepretendtoberelax
andconfident,makingbodylanguageroused,openingshoulders,and
smilingwithease,thenourtestosteronelevelwillrisewhilecortisolwill
beinhibited.Tosomeextent,oncewefakedtoberelaxandconfident,
onedayitwillbecomereal.AsAmysaid,‘Fakeittillyoumakeit.Fakeit
tillyoubecomeit.’
Icannotagreemoreaboutheridea,becauseIhadthesame
experiencebefore.Aftergraduatedfromprimaryschool,mycharacter
totallychanged,whichduetoaperson.SheistheoneIadmiredmostin
primaryschoolbecauseshecanbeveryconfidentinanyoccasion.
Everydaysheraisedherheadproudly,talkedwithothersinhumorous
wayandactedneitherhumblenorpushyjustlikeaqueen.However,i
usuallycurledupinmyseat,lookeddownasansweringquestions,darednotcontactwiththeone'seyes.Itiscortisolthatplaysthemainrole,
whichleadsustobepowerless.WhenIcametomiddleschool,Istarted
tochange.IpretendedtobeanotherherthoughIknowIamanimpostor,
Istilltriedtoappearconfidentandbrave.IfakedittillImadeit,and
finallyonedayIreallybecameit.Learningtotweakthisalittlebit,it
couldsignificantlychangethewayyourlifeunfolds.
SoIwanttosay,risingyourheadproudly,openingyourshoulder
withconfidence,holdingyourhandsuptotop,answeringquestionsas
loudlyasyoucan.Youarewhatyoudo.Youarewhatyousay.Youare
whatyourbodylanguageexpresses,becauseyourbodylanguageshapes
whoyouare.
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