沟通英语第2版听力文本文档格式.docx
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first,howtostartaconversation;
second,howtokeepitgoing;
andthird,howtoendit.
Startingaconversationusuallymeanscomingupwithanopeninglineoricebreaker.Thebestkindoficebreakerisonethat'
spositive.Thelastthingpeoplewanttohearfromastrangerishownoisythepartyis,howawfulthefoodis,orhowuglythepeoplearedressed.
Acomplimentisalwaysagoodicebreakerandwillusuallybeappreciated.Anynewseventisagoodicebreaker.Iencourageallofyoutoreadthenewspaperbecauseit'
ssoimportanttoknowwhat'
sgoingonintheworld.Thefactis,anyopeninglinewilldo,aslongasit'
snotnegative,andaslongasit'
snotalie.Thebestwaytoenticeapersontohaveaconversationwithyouisbybeingsincereandrespectful,andlettingthemknowthatyouareinterestedintalkingtothem.
Onceyou'
vegotaconversationgoing,thebestwaytokeepitgoingisbyaskingtheotherpersonquestionsthatdon'
trequirejustayesornoanswerorquestionswhichshowgenuineinterestonyourpart.Forexample,ifsomeonesays,"
I'
mfromMiami,"
youmayrespondwith,"
Oh,I'
vebeentoMiami!
"
andcontinuewith,"
Howlonghaveyoulivedthere?
Then,"
Iwasbornthere,andI'
velivedthereallmylife."
Youmightsay,"
venevermetanyonewhoisaFloridanative.IsyourfamilyfromMiamiaswell?
Youkeepaskingquestionsbasedonthelastthingapersonsays.Thisiscalledthe"
elaborationtechnique."
Choosequestionsthatwillgettheotherpersontoelaborateonwhatthey'
resaying.Askquestionssimilartothoseareportermightasktodrawapersonout:
who,what,when,where,andwhyquestions.
Onceyouhitonsomethingyoufindinteresting,keepaskingquestionsinordertogetthepersontoelaborateaboutthetopicasmuchaspossible.Agoodconversationalistelaboratesontheexperiencesthey'
vehad.Insteadofsayingthepartywasfun,tellwhyitwasfun.Describewhyyouhadagoodtime--whowasthere,whathappened,whereitwas,andhowpeoplearrangedtheparty.Gointodetail.Descriptionisthebestformofcommunicationbecauseitkeepspeople'
sinterestupandstimulatesthem.Usewordstocreateimagesandpaintpicturessothattheotherpersoncangetavisualaswellasanauditoryimageofwhatyou'
redescribingtothem.Ifyouusethedescriptioneffectively,youcanmakethepersonfeelasthoughtheywereactuallythere.
Inordertokeepaconversationgoing,thereareseventipsthatcanhelpyoubeanex-cellentcommunicator:
One,beawareofyourownbodyandfaciallanguage.Makegoodfacialcontactwhenyouspeak,andbephysicallyexpressivewithoutbeingexcessive.
Two,don'
tgossip.Youruntheriskofoffendingthepersonyou'
retalkingto.Italsomakesyoulooksmall.
Three,cultivateawiderangeoftopics.
Four,haveasenseofhumor.Everyoneenjoysahumorousstoryorjoke.Sexualandethnichumor,however,arenotworththeeffectsthatthejokesmayhaveonyourtotalim-
age.Peoplemaybeoffended,whichmayinturnreflectpoorjudgmentonyourpartandmayencouragethemtothinklessofyou.
Five,don'
tinterrupt.Peoplehatebeinginterrupted.Fighttheimpulsetointerruptandgivethepersonyou'
retalkingtothetimetheyneedtocompletewhatthey'
resayingtoyou.
Six,beenthusiasticandupbeat(cheerful).Don'
tbeafraidtoshowenthusiasm.Ital-lowstheotherpersontofeelthatyou'
reinterestedinwhatthey'
resayingtoyou.
Seven,beflexibleinyourpointofview.Trytobeasopenaspossible,andtrytoseethingsfromtheotherperson'
spointofview.
Ifyoustartedaconversationwithanotherperson,andyou'
rehavingdifficultyendingit,thereareseveralsignalsyoucansendtotheotherpersonthatwillbringtheconversa-tiontoitsclosewithouthurtinganyone'
sfeelings.Breakingeyecontactis--discreetsignalthattheconversationisabouttoend..
Anotherwaytosignalistousetransitionwordslikewell,oratanyrate.Youmaywanttorecapallthatwassaid.Whateveryoudo,don'
tlietotheotherperson.Ifyounotinterestedintalkingtothemagain,don'
tmentionthepossibilityofafuturemeetingjusttobepolite.That'
shypocritical.Instead,youmaywanttosay,"
Nicemeetingyou.Andthen,leave.
Finally,besuretogivetheotherpersonagood,firmhandshake.Thefinalimpressionyoumakecanbejustanimportantastheinitialonesyoumade.
UnitTwoListeningTask
NonverbalCo
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